Did A Ancient Hebrew Bride Wear White Wedding Dresses?

The tradition of a bride wearing white as a sign of purity on the wedding day, considered a day of repentance and forgiveness, originated with Queen Victoria in the mid-19th century. This tradition is believed to have originated from the Jewish customs of dowry and bride-price, which were already changing in the fifth century B.C.E. The ancient groom’s wedding suit was typically a toga virilis, a plain white toga worn by adult male citizens.

The average cost of a wedding dress for brides is $1,800, according to The Knot Real Weddings Study. For most of history, even Western brides did not wear white. In ancient Rome, where marriages were celebrated with parties and banquets, brides did not wear white. The tradition of a white wedding dress is commonly credited to Queen Victoria’s choice to wear a white gown.

Before white became popular, brides had a variety of options when it came to their wedding attire. The color of the bride’s dress was not limited to white, and different colors held different meanings and symbolism. Blue was a popular choice for brides as it represented wealth. Wedding Wire found that 82% of brides still chose to wear the traditional “white wedding dress” in 2018, but this number may change as the world emerged from the difficult economic times of the Depression and the rationing days of the war.

The idea of a wedding ceremony probably began in the classical world, during the days of ancient Greece and Rome. Beautiful white wedding dresses appeared in the 1950s, when the world emerged from the difficult economic times of the Depression and the rationing days of the war. Today, white or ivory are ever-changing, and the tradition of a white wedding dress has not always been fashionable.


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What was the original colour of wedding dresses?

Before 1840, when Queen Victoria wore an influential white dress for her wedding ceremony, it was quite usual for a bride to wear red, pink, blue, brown, or even black, while saying her vows. Despite growing interest in the royal white ideal, many women, particularly those with less money, continued to choose coloured or patterned fabrics in the mid-19th century, as they were more practical and affordable than white. Sarah Maria Wright wore a block-printed patterned dress for her wedding to Daniel Neal, an agricultural labourer, in Skirbeck in 1841. The pattern of Sarahs dress is up-to-date but the cut follows the silhouette of the mid to late 1830s, reflecting the slower pace of changing fashion in rural communities. *Due partly to economic progress and the rise of the middle classes, by the late 1800s, the white wedding gown became the expected choice for most brides. Even so, in 1889, ladys maid Harriett Joyce wore a crisply tailored purple dress for her marriage to Percy Raven Sams at Earlsfield, Middlesex. Aged 35, Harriet simply considered herself too old for a traditional white gown. A skilled sewer, she made the dress herself. *Forty years later, in 1938, Monica Maurice chose a striking red silk gauze wedding dress. Monica worked as an electrical engineer with the Wolf Safety Lamp Company. In 1938, as well as getting married, she became the first – and, until 1978, the only – female member of the Association of Mining Electrical Engineers. She travelled to Germany regularly in the 1930s and ran the Wolf Safety Lamp Company from 1951 to 1979, alongside raising three children. Monica went on to receive an OBE in 1975.

Why did brides wear white?

In many societies, white symbolizes purity and virtue. This is one reason why some brides wear white, especially in the West. People often say brides wear white because it’s tradition. But white wasn’t the only color for wedding dresses. Other colors were chosen more often than white. In Western societies, wedding dresses were of all colors for many centuries. This was for practical reasons. Brides bought dresses they could wear again or wore their best dress. White is not practical because it’s hard to clean and not ideal for repeat wear. Many brides wore dresses of other colors for their wedding and beyond. Why do so many brides wear white today? This started with Queen Victoria’s 1840 wedding to Prince Albert. Like today, royal weddings in the past got a lot of coverage and set trends. Queen Victoria and Prince Albert’s wedding was no exception. When Victoria wore a white gown, it was reported in newspapers and magazines. This influenced wedding trends. At first, only rich brides wore white wedding dresses. But the trend spread to all economic levels. By the 20th century, it was a tradition.

How did ancient Israelites marry?

To marry a girl, a man would give her father a gift to seal the betrothal. Betrothal was a stronger commitment than today’s engagement. Some people think the betrothal gift is a purchase price, but it isn’t. This gift is called “bridewealth.” It is found in many societies and is not considered a sale. Israelite wives were not thought of as slaves in the Bible, though men sometimes married slave women. After the betrothal, there would be wedding celebrations lasting days. In the ancient Near East, including Israel, the relationship between husbands and wives was unequal. Ba‘al, one of the Hebrew words for “husband,” also meant “lord” or “master.” Men had power over women in the case of adultery. Men could have more than one wife or concubine and could also have sex with prostitutes. This meant that monogamy was not the norm in this culture. Biblical texts say that marriages between cousins were preferred. Some texts say that marriages with non-Israelites are allowed, while others say they are not. Some passages say Israelites can’t marry non-Israelites, but other texts, like Ruth, say it’s OK. Leviticus 18 forbids incest but not uncle-niece marriages, which are forbidden in some later Jewish communities, including those who wrote the Dead Sea Scrolls. Deuteronomy 25:5-10 encourages a custom called levirate marriage, where a widow marries her husband’s brother if he dies without children. This is similar to the practice in the book of Ruth.

Where did the tradition of a bride wearing white come from?

A royal wedding started the trend of white bridal wear. Queen Victoria didn’t wear a coronation robe when she married Prince Albert on February 10, 1840. She wore a white gown that was featured in newspapers and magazines around the world. Women across the globe copied her style and color of gown, hoping to look like the young, attractive queen. White wedding dresses became a sign of wealth and status. Only rich brides could wear white silk gowns because they were married in clean, elegant places away from the dirt and grime of the Industrial Age. These gowns were actually cream or ivory, which looked better on most people. The white wedding dress didn’t become popular in Europe and North America until the 1930s. It didn’t become popular in the US until after World War II.

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Did ancient Jews wear wedding rings?

History. Wedding rings weren’t part of Jewish marriage at first. The Bible doesn’t mention wedding rings. Jews have taken this custom from other cultures. It is now an important part of Jewish weddings. The Mishnah (Kiddushin 1:1) says a man can betroth a woman in three ways:

Giving her money. Giving her a written contract. Consummating the relationship.

When did brides start wearing white wedding dresses?

Mary, Queen of Scots, wore a white wedding gown in 1559. The tradition of a white wedding dress is commonly credited to Queen Victoria’s choice to wear a white court dress at her wedding to Prince Albert in 1840. Debutantes had long been required to wear white court dresses and long white gloves for their first presentation at court. Before Victoria, royal brides didn’t wear white. They wore heavy brocaded gowns embroidered with white and silver thread, with red being popular in Western Europe. During this time, European and American brides wore many colors, including blue, yellow, and black, brown, or gray. As people heard about Victoria’s wedding, they copied her style. Because washing was difficult before the 20th century, white dresses were a way to show off wealth. They were a way to show the world that the bride’s family was wealthy and part of the leisure class. The bride would choose an elaborate dress that could be ruined.

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What was an ancient Hebrew wedding like?

Betrothal and wedding. In the Middle Ages, marriage was a two-part ceremony with a long interval between. First came the betrothal, then the wedding. At the betrothal, the woman was legally married, but still lived with her father. She couldn’t marry anyone else unless she was divorced from her betrothed. The wedding was when the woman was taken from her father’s house to her groom’s house. This made the legal tie between them official.

This division of marriage into two events began very long ago when marriage was a purchase. Women were bought like chattel.

Like any purchase, marriage had two parts. First, the price was paid and the sale agreed upon. Later, the buyer took possession of the item. In marriage, the bride and groom’s families made a detailed agreement. The betrothal was followed by the wedding, when the bride moved in with the groom.

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Can you wear white as a bride?

The bride can wear white, ivory, or champagne, but it’s her color for the day. Brandi Hamerstone, owner and wedding planner at All Events Planned, says you don’t want to be mistaken for the bride in a white or lace gown. You don’t want to look like you’re trying to look bridal on someone else’s day. Even if you didn’t mean to, people will think you’re trying to look bridal, and who wants that?

Other Colors That Are Off-Limits. If you’re a stickler for etiquette, don’t wear colors similar to white, says bridal stylist Gabrielle Hurwitz. Ivory and cream are off-limits, as are silver, champagne, blush, and pale blue. These colors can look white in photos. If you’re unsure of a color, take photos of the garment in different lighting to see how it looks on camera. Dresses that look darker in photos than in real life can help you skirt the no-white rule, especially in knee-length cocktail dresses. If the dress code allows, you can wear a knee-length pale blush or ice blue dress for cocktail attire. Avoid fabrics like lace and tulle that can look more traditional bridal. She offers one simple guideline: If you’re unsure about a white dress, it probably is too white.

Should a non-virgin bride wear white?

Can you wear white if you have a child? White wedding dresses have long been associated with purity and virginity. But today, the idea that you must be “pure” to wear a white dress is old-fashioned. Many brides choose to wear white on their wedding day, even if they’re not virgins or have children. These days, white is chosen because it’s traditional. Can you wear a white wedding dress for a second marriage? You can wear white to your wedding even if it’s your second or third marriage. Wearing white in the 21st century means you’re a bride, so have fun and don’t worry about others’ opinions. If you don’t want to wear white to your second wedding, you don’t have to. While it’s traditional, it’s not required. There are many other wedding dress colors.

Who started the tradition of white wedding dresses?

Some women wore white gowns to the altar over the centuries, but it wasn’t until Queen Victoria wore a white silk-spun gown at her wedding to Prince Albert in 1840 that the look really took off. Instead of the usual fur, gold embroidery, and rich colors, Victoria wore a simple white dress with Honiton lace and traded her crown for a wreath of orange blossoms and myrtle. But when the wedding march began, the guests were disappointed. Where was the pomp and circumstance? Royal weddings were about wealth and politics, not love. Families used the occasion to show off their wealth through their brides. Margaret of York’s wedding dress from 1468 was so heavy with jewels that she had to be carried into the church. Princess Charlotte wore a silver lamé gown embroidered with shells and flowers in 1816. It cost £10,000 (about $1.3 million in today’s money). Victoria’s simple white dress made it look like a frugal affair. That was part of the plan. At 20, Queen Victoria wanted to show she was sensible and prudent on her wedding day.

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Are white wedding dresses biblical?

Isaiah 1:18: “Your sins are like scarlet, but they will be white as snow.” The white wedding gown is not a symbol of purity. It symbolizes Jesus’s work on the cross. It is a sign of the Holy Spirit’s work, changing hearts and making people new.

2 Cor 5:17 “If anyone is in Christ, they are a new creation. The old is gone; the new has come. One day, the Holy Spirit will complete his work and God’s people will stand before him as a bride on her wedding day, forgiven, changed, new, and in love with their groom.


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  • This is one of the absolute best teachings I’ve ever heard. I listened to parts 1 & 2 on a long drive today and was riveted. The clear and cogent breakdown of Hebrew customs and the scriptural examples given were easy to follow, and I was totally blown away by the explanation of the wedding ritual in the moedim/feasts. Thank you for making this available through YouTube and for so generously offering your notes!

  • Your sermons on ‘the ancient Hebrew wedding model’ are truly the most in-depth, valuable teachings about God, Jesus and Holy Spirit I have ever heard in my life! They actually explain many of the things I witnessed during my life-after-death experience where I stood face to face with God and Jesus at heaven’s gate. I was certainly treated as Jesus’ bride – even dressed in white linen! What a beautiful mind for God you have!! Thank you for your insight!!

  • I have struggled for years with the doctrine of marriage and divorce in the Christian community and in Studying Matthew chapters 5 and 19, I was inspired to extend my research and I began to see the parallels as presented here. I’m so happy I came across these presentations and I am learning loads. Keep up the great work.!!!!!

  • Yes! Yes! I started connecting these marriage/wedding ‘dots’ about 3-4ish years ago!! It was like one of those 🤯💡🔐 💜 moments!! But you brought to mind even more elements of this beautiful tapestry of His truths that Yah continues to weave together for us to seek and find!! Very, very cool!! So special! 💗👍

  • What a magnificent, biblical & clear presentation. Of course this is Yah speaking Wedding language and rightly stated it’s not just Jewish customs but Hebrew custom & culture! The analogues are rich & descriptive throughout. I love it! Rich blessings be upon all who receive this teaching. Learnt a great deal. Thank you! Watched 15.08.2020

  • Somehow Yah just keeps giving me teachings like this that continue to show that I’m on the right track with keeping the Torah commands and living according to His “old testament” ways, but in a new covenant way. Now I see that the “new covenant” is truly a new marriage covenant. The church is not a whole new thing that just came after God was done with Israel. The church is Israel reborn and remarried.

  • Thank you! I am just starting this series and I am immensely enjoying this and all the beautiful details, some I have learned and some brand new! I am so excited to hear more!! Praise Yah! Praise Yeshua for all they have provided for us, May Yah Bless you for all you have done and continue to do for the Kingdom!

  • oh thank you so much, this was the most wonderful teaching I have ever watched… it really talk to me in a way I can’t explain… Got me full of rejoicing in our Father and his Son, our savior in such a deeper way. It also explained to me many dreams that I’ve had since I got to know Yeshua 2 years and a half ago. Thank you agin, and your brother in Christ too who did this with you…

  • The dots are connecting and forming the greater picture! I know it is grace that has opened my eyes to the “ancient paths” and Torah, but to deny that YaH no longer needs/wants us to follow the entire Word is incredulous. So many arguments over just using the name Jesus and not Yashua or Yahusha. Why would we not want to become more intimate with our Creator is unfathomable. Thanks so much for this teach….2 years later!

  • I am beyond astounded, mesmerized, and lifted up spiritually after perusal your lesson. I do t know your background, but assume you are Jewish, and a believer. I can’t imagine how much time it took you to prepare this lesson, the references were outstanding! So much of your article interests me, especially the reference to the betrothal, wedding, and consummation. I knew it was vital to know the wife was virgin, and had to present her blood as proof on the wedding night. My question is this: since the groom and bride did not communicate before the wedding, and the groom was sent when the father said the groom was ready, what happened if the bride was menstruating? She would have been unable to consummate the marriage, correct? Or is this so,etching only after a couple is married? She would have evidence of blood, but it would not be from consummating. So, in your knowledge of the wedding traditions, how was this handled? I’m sure there were many brides in their cycle when the groom came. Afraid of the punishment of death, how would a husband know his bride was a virgin at the time of their consummation? I’d love to know more about you, and your education. You have an amazing ability to teach, and your knowledge of the Bible, both old and New Testament is mind blowing to me! I didn’t see a name or CV in your lesson. Thank you for this! I love the traditions of the Hebrew people, and the foretelling of the Messiah, written in the Scriptures. Is your audience mainly Jewish, Christian?

  • The reason they ate when they made covenants like marriage arrangements is because they would cut an animal up when they CUT DEALS, which was a SACRIFICE. The Hebrew word for sacrifice is built on the idea of cutting off in order to get something. Every time a person cuts a deal, they are sacrificing (cutting something off) of themselves. Look at the deal God made with Abram in Genesis 15.

  • We will drink that cup if we continue transgressing His Law (sin). With a circumcised heart/ cut the meat/ covenant/ heart we desire to follow all the ketubah/Torah and also TaNaK n Renewed covenant called NT. Actually, Scripture in the NT are the Torah that is being talked about. Good article! May we all be made complete, perfect and whole… Shalom Shalom! Ahabah Mishpacha, Hebrew crossed over, His bride! Praise YaHuWaH! PS. Word in our hearts…is not yet, we still memorize, but the day is coming when He will come and take His bride. And the Word will be written in our hearts without having to memorize. Many think this is already but it’s not.

  • These are wonderful articles, so much perspective and in depth learning but the Torah was part of the old covenant and changing the words and contexts of verses only takes away from a so much greater meaning and spiritual marriage, it is no longer a part of our new covenant. If it was not this way it would be as a woman married to both men at one time, under 2 covenants at one time. The new covenant is just what it sounds like, a New covenenant. Again wonderful wonderful studies I enjoy them greatly, this is just my understanding and perspective I’m sharing through studying scripture

  • Yes, what yeast represents, Thank you! I’m against drinking or eating yeast and alcoholic wine….where Is the juice? Did the grapes get crushed and turn to wine? No! They had no yeast for all the wilderness and it was only burnt in sacrifice. Why is it always called wine. So what is strong drink then? There were no distilleries! Wheres The Juice? Too many gets drunk n eats the yeast that isn’t good for us. All those cups makes people drunk so there’s something not righteous about it. Grapes are fermented by Pesach. But they could drink barley water. But anyways…I loved the article!

  • Didn’t Jesus say that He went to prepare a place for us? Where is it? On earth or in heaven? Surly in heaven so millennium is not on this earth. Jews will not rule the world for God doesn’t play favorites. Your house was left desolate and will never be rebuilt. The earth will be destroyed. Nevertheless good typologies of the wedding but the doctrine is wrong,