How Much For A Ukrainian Bride?

The lower the income the more difficult it will be. I can say that over 3 years, I have spent more than 15k just in visits alone. Then there is the thing of helping/support her. I would add another ruffly 12k on top of that. Then comes the visa process. If you use a lawyer, then anywhere from 1200 to 3k. Then, about 600 for the visa application. Add 400 for the physical exam. Last part to get her to the is the open end flight. Figure about 5k for this. Once she is in the US the sky is the limit with Greencard, drivers license/work docs. The Citizenship process, well figure about 15k to 20k. Not cheap at all. But, is it worth it in the long run? Yes!

“Ukrainian women” are not a commodity. How about stopping to use one adjective “beautiful”? What other adjectives would you be able to sell for Ukrainian women? She is a living person, often with her child. 90% of Ukrainian women do not make efforts – they don’t speak English, probably a negative legacy from USSR educational system. I’m learning Russian by the way. If she does not move, I move.

At 50 and always wanting a family I seem to only attract the crazy ones. After being burned several times by cheaters,liars,and crazies, I have learned to embrace the lonely single life. I got a dog for companionship and finally learned to cook and I live better on way less than what I foolishly wasted on the dating scene. I’m finally happy and do what I want to do with my time and money, because of this I am debt free and only have to work a fraction of what I used to. The women in America are undateable and expect way more than they bring to the table. It just isn’t worth it for the return.

I wish I had met you 20 years ago. I was engaged to five different Russian and ukraine ladies but never married. I could write a novel about Russia, Ukraine, and Eastern European bride business. I made over 20 trips. i generally agree with your comments, however one point is many men don’t like clubs. I went to Colombia as well, divorced just after 1 month. Finally married a Filipina. I generally was looking for a very intelligent woman, not a party woman. I still get some emails from Ukraine ladies after all these years, “Brett, you were the nicest man I ever met, I was so naive and immature, I should have married you but I wound up with this crazy man and now I have 2-3 kids. I would say the Phillipines maybe easier, but you may have to spend money to support the entire family not just the woman. Also, if you don’t like catholic or christianity you will have serious issues.

It would be interesting to know the success rate of the marriages between Ukrainian women and foreigners. By “success” I mean marriages that lasted 5+ years. Something tells me that a lot of them Ukrainian women are after comfortable emigration to developed countries and spousal support. I do not believe in love between people from different cultures who barely understand each other 😂

My pal married a lovely Ukrainian lady with a young daughter, they got married, she was fine at first then said she missed home etc, went back and forth whilst he was slaving away, she was rinsing his bank account, racking up thousands on his plastic. One day she said she was going back to visit family and wanted to take some cash, so he gave her a chunk from his stash and guess what, she never returned. Demanded a divorce and him to pay for her and her daughter since he was her father lol, well she saw him as a father with unlimited funds as he was very generous. It’s really sad tbh, he really loved her and we all thought he found happiness finally after being burnt by a Thai woman who drained him big time.

Guys: women are not all alike and interchangeable. Ukrainian women are all white for example. Brazilians and Colombians have many skin colors including black. Europeans are also taller. Ukranian women tend to be educated and many have degrees. Not so for Colombia and Brazil. Eastern Europeans are busty, but Latins tend to have much bigger and nicer booties…. So it’s not a one size fits all.

28:00 thank you for mentioning Riga, my hometown! I’m Russian and I met my American husband online 19 years ago. He was 40 an I was 26 years old. He came to Latvia to visit me after 6 weeks talking on the phone and sending emails. We got married 2 months after his first visit. Now we still together, having 3 kids and we still love each other.😊

Another very interesting article on this subject. However, you seem to be telling 55 and 60 year olds that the days that men in their age bracket could get young Eastern European women are over. Your main focus seems to be much younger men in their 40’s. I personally don’t believe that it’s entirely over for men around 55 to get younger desirable Eastern European women, but I do agree it would be much harder these days for a number of reasons. Your article about the best way to set up a Tinder profile sounds interesting, I await your article on that.

Enjoyed your discussion, Conor. Best wishes on your business. ( Since i am an old man, ten kilos overweight, still working full time but boring life, am able to conclude that i don’t meet your “high” standards to qualify for your esteemed business and social life, so hereby disqualify myself). (that said, i did save a few Canadian dollars by doing so, though..) (those two vapor smokers had to be at the lowest end of social scale).

I appreciate your realistic approach to this . I am 70 yrs old. Very healthy, physically active, still can physically work hard,out work guys half my age, I still water ski and have for the most part dated women younger than myself, so they can keep up with me. On these various dating sites, that have rating 1-5 I have always been rated as a 5. I have been looking in Ukraine for two reasons, many of the women are strikingly beautiful in Ukraine although the stats show the average life span in Ukraine is 63 for men and 73 for women. Ukrainians do not age particularly that well . The other reason was I was still under the impression that a reasonable age gap was still acceptable there. Apparently not any more. I was looking for a quality woman between the age of 45-55. When they get much older than that, they don’t represent someone who could have a good time in the bedroom or out on the boat . I read where oftentimes men age like wine, where women age like milk, quick to get sour and lumpy. My family lives a long time, into their 90’s is most common and most still driving their own cars well, not being hang ups at the stoplight or on the freeways. I have seen where a lot of fat dudes with no game and barn door hygienics go to Ukraine and proceed to be the geeks they are, being the reason why they aren’t successful back in their own Countries, let alone be hooking up with a younger hottie. It appears that the over marketed old world values of Ukraine women have been quickly modernized/westernized and your 20 yrs too late comment appears to be right on the mark.

You are too disparaging of single moms, which is both unfair and unwise. There are lots of fabulous single moms of all age groups out there. Getting pregnant young and divorcing or, more likely, the father never really being in the picture, is perfectly normal in many countries or societies, and shouldn’t carry any stigma or prove that she was stupid or careless. I have dated several really hot single moms – my last major GF was a 25 year old “8” with a 2 year old daughter. It all depends on your situation and your intentions. If you are looking for a life partner and planning to bring them back to your country, then that obviously has serious (though not necessarily bad) implications. But if you are just looking for an on-going fun partner in Ukraine, there is not reason why a single mom should not be option, and might even be an advantage. The upside of single moms is they know they are starting with a disadvantage, and need to work hard to please their man. And Momma Bear will do anything to protect and support her Bear Cub(s). So a single mom is invested in maintaining a stable relationship. At the same time, you know that she has survived child-birth with her figure intact (you don’t date her otherwise). She will certainly appreciate any support of her little family. And most of the time she is struggling just to get by and take care of the kid. She no longer gets to do the fun things her old girlfriends used to (and maybe still) do. So she will be very grateful for any date that reminds her of the freedoms that she no longer enjoys, and a mini-vacation to Odessa or Paris will be appreciated.

Guys who wanted to find a beautiful slavic wife 9-10 have lost practically all their opportunities. The most beautiful Ukrainian girls are in Ukraine with a boyfriend / husband or, the vast majority of them, have left Ukraine and of course, after 1 year, they have a boyfriend or husband in Europe (I doubt any of them live in a refugee center or in the apartment of a benevolent, waiting for the benevolent to need the apartment and kick her out). So 95 % of the available, most beautiful slavic girls are now in Russia and Belarus, and of course it’s necessary to have good contacts to travel to these 2 countries from now on: no direct flights, not easy to get visa, no airbnb, and practically all Western guys would even be afraid of travelling to Russia / Belarus in the future. So this is not just the end of the slavic bride business but practically the end of couples western men /slavic 9-10 beauties. Such men can try to find some 7-8 beauties with temperamental characters in southamerica, because that is the most they can get there :).. Budapest (Hungary) is probably the best place for your Tzar experience. Not the most beautiful women but it’s a touristic beautiful city, very cheap and a lot of night life.

Conor first would you agree that even ugly fat short men worth over $25M have plenty of options everywhere? If you agree with that, please assess these two different situations: 1. What if I’m younger (38 years old) but only a working middle class guy? or 2. What if I am older 55 with a much higher net worth (over $5M or $10M)? Will that open a door? Would you make the effort to fill in the application? I’m just trying to find out if you need to be in that exact sweet spot of 40’s and well off to rich.