What Did Jesus Say About Marriage And Divorce?

Jesus taught that marriage is a sacred, divine, and ordained institution given as a gift by a great God. He affirmed the basics of marriage divorce without giving the Pharisees anything to “shoot at.” When the Pharisees tested Jesus on this controversial issue of divorce, Jesus focused on the one fleshness of a married couple (Mark 10:2–9). Later, the disciples privately asked Jesus to answer their question about the one fleshness of a married couple. Jesus replied that Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard, but it was not this way from the beginning.

Jesus said that divorce is an accommodation to the sinfulness of man’s heart, not part of God’s original plan. He told his disciples that anyone who divorces his wife, except for marital unfaithfulness, and marries another woman commits adultery (Matt 19:8-9, NIV). The Lord’s command for mixed marriage is the same for the marriage between two Christians. While divorce has occurred, it is not the Christian’s fault. Paul does not contradict the law of Christ. The Christian and the nonbeliever must remain unmarried or be reconciled to their spouse.

In Matthew 5:32, Jesus stated that whoever divorces his wife, except on the grounds of porneia (sexual immorality), is guilty of sex sins in marriage. Jesus gave an exception to the teaching against divorce, stating that if one spouse enters into sexual immorality, God allows for, but does not require, divorce. Jesus taught his disciples that to divorce and remarry is adultery (not fornication).

In conclusion, Jesus’ teachings on marriage and divorce are a significant aspect of the Bible’s teachings. He emphasizes the importance of maintaining a healthy relationship with one’s spouse and avoiding frivolous divorces.

Where was Jesus asked about divorce?

Matthew 19:3-12 The Passion Translation (TPT) The Pharisees wanted to test Jesus, so they asked him if it was okay for a man to divorce his wife for any reason. “Have you read the creation story?” Jesus answered. One day, the Pharisees kept asking him questions. “Is it legal for a man to divorce his wife for any reason?” He answered, “The Creator made man and woman for each other, male and female.” A man leaves his parents and is bonded to his wife, becoming one flesh. “God made them one, so no one should separate them.” “If that’s true, why did Moses allow divorce?” “Moses allowed divorce because of your hardness of heart, but it’s not part of God’s plan.” I’m sticking to the original plan. If you divorce your faithful wife and then marry someone else, you’re committing adultery. Jesus’ disciples said, “If that’s the deal, we’re out of luck.” “Why get married?” Jesus said, “Not everyone is ready for marriage.” It takes skill and grace. Not everyone is meant to get married. Some never think about marriage. Others are never asked or accepted. Some decide not to get married for religious reasons. “If you can, get married.” The Pharisees also came to him and asked if a man could divorce his wife for any reason. He answered, “Have you not read that God made them male and female? He said a man should leave his parents and be with his wife, and they would become one flesh.” They are now one flesh. What God joins together, let no one separate. They ask him, “Why did Moses say to give a divorce and to put her away?” He said, “Moses allowed you to divorce your wives because you were unkind. But it wasn’t always like that.” If a man divorces his wife for any reason except fornication and then marries another, he is committing adultery. And if a woman is divorced and then remarried, she is committing adultery. His disciples say it is not good to marry if the man is married to his wife. But he said, “Not everyone can understand this.” Some people are born eunuchs, some are made eunuchs, and some choose to be eunuchs for religious reasons. If you can, accept it. Some Pharisees came to Jesus and asked, “Is it okay for a man to divorce his wife for any reason?” He answered, “Have you not read that God made them male and female? A man shall leave his parents and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.” They are now one flesh. “What God has joined together, let no man separate.” They asked, “Why did Moses say to give her a divorce and send her away?” He said, “Because you are hard-hearted, Moses allowed you to divorce your wives. But it has not always been this way.” “If a man divorces his wife for any reason except for immorality and marries another woman, he commits adultery.” The disciples said, “It’s better not to marry.” But He said to them, “Not everyone can accept this.” Some people are born as eunuchs, some are made eunuchs by men, and some choose to be eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven. “If you can accept this, accept it.”

Is it a sin to marry a divorced man?

In Matthew 5:32, Jesus said that anyone who marries a divorced person also commits adultery. The Bible says you can’t remarry unless your spouse dies.

1 Corinthians 7:39 – A woman is bound to her husband as long as he lives. If her husband dies, she can marry anyone, but he must be a Christian. If I were single, I’d trust God to get married. If I were divorced, I’d trust God to help me stay single. If I can’t be faithful, I’d rather get married than have sex. I’d rather get married and be faithful to one person than have casual sex, masturbate, or use sex toys. Jesus is the final authority.

Does God ever think divorce is OK?

God made marriage to help men and women raise a family. This is a lifelong commitment; it should not be entered into lightly. The Bible only allows for divorce in the case of sexual immorality.

Does God want you to stay in an unhappy marriage?

God designed marriage to last forever. It’s a strong commitment. He wants you to stay married unless you are being abused or unfaithful. You must stay committed to your spouse, even if you’re unhappy.

Did Jesus believe in divorce?

Jesus said, Moses let you divorce your wives because your hearts were hard. But it wasn’t always like this. “Anyone who divorces their wife and marries another commits adultery” (Matt 19:8-9, NIV).

Did Jesus allow divorce in the Bible?

Jesus replied, Moses allowed divorce because people were sinful. But it wasn’t always like this. “Anyone who divorces their wife and marries another commits adultery” (Matt 19:8-9, NIV).

Did Jesus accept divorce?

The Bible says different things about divorce, but it’s clear that Jesus didn’t approve. In a world where men could divorce for minor reasons, these comments against divorce might seem unexpected. The disciples say in Matthew that it’s better not to marry. Jesus replied, “Not everyone can accept this word.” Some people are born without genitals, and some are made that way by others. Some choose to live like that for the kingdom of heaven. “If you can accept this, accept it.”

What does Jesus tell us about marriage?

A marriage is meant to last a lifetime. In Matthew 19:4-6, Jesus quotes Genesis to say that marriage is a spiritual covenant. He adds, “They are now one flesh.” God joins together what God joins together.

After being asked why Moses allowed divorce. Jesus says Moses allowed divorce because people were hard-hearted, not because it was God’s will for marriage. He even goes so far as to say: “If you divorce your wife for any reason but sexual immorality, you are committing adultery.” (Matthew 19:9)

What does God say about leaving a toxic marriage?

The Bible says we shouldn’t stay in relationships with people who hurt us. The Bible says we should leave relationships with bad people. (1 Corinthians 15:33, Proverbs 13:20, Psalm 1:1, Proverbs 6:27, 1 Corinthians 5:11, 1 Corinthians 10:13 – these are just a few). Parents and siblings are the same. Jesus told the disciples to flee persecution in one city by going to another. (Matthew 10:23). God didn’t tell them not to love. He told them to love from a distance because we must love, but we aren’t commanded to love evil.