When Your Ex Gets Engaged Quotes?

My boyfriend left me a week ago. But I know in my heart we are ment to be. He says he needs this time for us to work on ourselves and make us happy and healthy again. I got very insecure about my body image and just caused so many arguments. But I know we still have that deep love for each other. It’s hard spending this time away from him, but I know in the end it will only make us stronger. If it is ment to be it will be, I believe it.

Yup – I know she is the one – I literally kept contact and changed myself whilst showing her the results – and she noticed more than I imagined she would – and well we are now dating again and carving a new life for us and the children. We’ve done this about 4 times now and this is the last time.One thing that was never lost was the physical and mental attraction

My ex and I broke up around a month ago. I honestly feel like there is potential for us later on. She’s not in the best emotional state right now,not wanting to go to work or hardly wanting to get out of bed. I believe her when she says it’s not me who’s the problem. She accepts responsibility and knows that it was mostly her that kinda brought it down. But i try not to see it that way. she’s just hurt and broken and needs that time to heal. She doesn’t wanna be around anyone,her “friends” choose not to help her and not wanna understand her situation. I know im not perfect, but i was never trying to be,just being me for her even if we do have clashing personalities. We have so many other things like religious views,political views,family, and actually wanting something in our lives. I also see it as a maturity thing,im a senior about to graduate, and she’s still only a sophomore. So i get it’s probably a lot more tough for her. She recently texted me asking to come to my graduation dinner,so im optimistic that things will get better since we have talked to her and there about the situation. Most recently, on May 1st, for the last time,i got to do it in person, and i feel like i got my closure in a way. But i do feel like a future is hopeful (Sorry ik thats a lot, and i could go into more details potentially)

We broke up on Saturday and I’ve tried to be cooperative as possible and didn’t really beg, though I did get emotional. We were going to do a month apart and regroup, but I made a small mistake that she interpreted as me disrespecting her wishes and the boundaries she asked for and now says she doesn’t want any relationship including friendship. Her reaction was really out of character for her and I’m really confused. I can’t tell if she really means that or just needs time and space to cool down. There was no toxicity or abuse in this relationships. We were basically best friends.

Hey brad! My ex broke up with me close to 6 months ago. Unfortunately I begged and pleaded in the first month and she wasn’t happy and we had a chat after a month about it and I apologised. I went into no contact for an extended period of time as I wanted her to reach out to me. A couple of weeks ago she reached out and we have been talking since which has been very positive. The other night she said how great it is to finally reconnect but she said that she wants to move forward as friends as she doesn’t know what she wants for herself, but the way she is talking to me indicates different, and I definitely feel like we could have a second chance. I feel like if I go back into no contact it would be pointless, so should I stay friends with her and build that emotional connection and bond that we have with the chance of her growing feelings for me again? Thanks very much. Your articles are amazing!

I was with someone. They were the most amazing person, the best realationship i could ever have. And it breaks me, thinking they will hold around someone, else like they used to do with me. Hug, love, kiss that person’s forhead..i hate that it’s NOT ME. I hate…that i can’t stop loving that person. I just can’t. I’ve tried. I have had a crush. But i just fall for my ex.. it’s always them. They’re amazing. I just wish…it was me, and not the person they like…i hate how I’m feeling. I HATE IT. it sucks…

Five months later here I am perusal these articles… guess I still have hope for it to happen again. It’s just been so long since we have had any kind of communication. I have wanted to reach out but I just don’t know what I would say. Still feels like nothing has changed since the break up even 5 months later.

It is so difficult because we were both perfectly imperfect. We initially had zero compatibility, and zero similarities that I thought it wouldn’t last a couple months. It sucks because we lasted 5 damn years, growing and adapting to each other’s likes and dislikes, and eventually loving each other whole heartedly and improving one another’s person. One day, literally she woke up and just saw nothing for us. No more feelings, no nothing. It was such a shock to me because I did nothing wrong, yet she felt absolutely nothing. She broke up with me, and I could not even begin to process why. It’s been 3 weeks, I tried to ask her to work things out, to communicate, to give me a clear answer, but she won’t. It’s crazy. Because even if she checks all these 8 signs, it still feels like she wants nothing. I don’t even know what lesson to learn from, if i did anything wrong, if she did anything wrong.. How do you learn from that— how do you try to learn from a relationship that gave you nothing to learn from. I wasn’t perfect by all means, but i gave her the world. I understood her needs, I grew the love for her imperfections, for her family, her friends.. I don’t even know what to do any more.

We’ve been spoke many times, and hang out now 2,5 years after our breakup. We tried to make it work again for 3 months, but realized, that it was not the time. Afterwards we are still hanging out alot and the things didn’t change. It’s still the same chemistry, same connection, and I’ve been told, that “you should never say, we are never ever getting back together.” Is that right? Are these 7 words that dangerous? And can the oposite be proven?

All the tips fit in with me i even met her the day after the breakup and we changed it to a break but we were still free to see other people its day 1 of no contact and i know her family is behind me since they all loved me even her grandparents and neighbors she even told me she wants a future with me but since our relationship was the same things every week she wanted to be single for a while. im doing this because i really want to have a future with her and it would break me to not have it with her. we agreed on meeting in 2 month just before christmas so beside no contact for 30 days or so is their anything i can do more to make my situation better.

I’m on this boat now and he told me he sees us getting back together but since we had some drama it’s going to take a little time and we have to get used to being uncomfortable for now. He’s struggling with mental health issues and per his family he shouldn’t be in a relationship. It makes my stomach turn and wanting to vomit when I think it’s over. We finish each other’s sentences, we know what we are going to say, we both lost our parents at a young age, we both have trauma. I feel so spiritually connected to him and I love him more than the words could explain. He completes me and when we broke up I couldn’t stop crying every hour. I would stop my car on the side of the road because I felt like I couldn’t breath. I held on to my family to help me not be alone in the same bed we shared. I’m shaking thinking about it. I messed up and it’s my time to make things right

Everything you listed here was exactly me and my ex, we only broke up because she moved to a different country for studies for 4+ years and we’d only see each other a couple weeks of the year! We both agreed it would be best not to make contact at all as it would make the whole breakup situation harder but 7 months later and I’m still feeling the loss! I would like to make some kind of contact but at this point I don’t know how as I don’t want to break my promise of no contact to her but she still views all my socials so I’m presuming she still cares too, any advice on how to approach this as I genuinely think she the “one”?

I think you have to have self belief, stop being needy and desperate and have some self worth When we get rejected we loose something, but eventually we realise we’ve actually gained It’s not easy I’ve been there a few times, the best thing to do is accept it, it’s life and life goes on You have to seriously seriously ask your self this question “” why do I want to get back with my ex ” Is it the comfort of being with them, because I can tell you, if you think you miss them your lying to yourself, you miss the idea of them, it’s a fantasy of what you wanted, you put ideas, notions and make up dreams and scenarios that are not real and end up torturing yourself and having anxiety attacks Best thing to do is change the story, change your mind set and believe that your the best out there, give some self love, get back up and remember this They wasn’t yours it was just your turn They had relationships before you and after you and so will you, invest in yourself, think like a boss, have self belief and never ever ever ever put some on a pedestal, you are star in your movie don’t let some one replace you as a star

It was always on and off with her but the last time we broke up was about a year ago and since then we only spoke one time, i reached out to her she answered but it was a cold and cordial conversation, even though we became toxic for eachother but we loved eachother deeply and the major issue has been the physical distance between us . I’m still in love with her, on the surface it seems like she has moved on to another relationship but sometimes she sends mixed signals on her social media and its clear that they are for me. I tried to move on and forget her but i can’t i still love her. I don’t know if we ever gonna be together again or she has completely moved on and I’m being delusional and not accepting the facts, but mostly it’s because she does some stuff that make me feel like she still thinks of me too . I saw her typing few times on our chat and not sending any messages, i saw her putting a screenshot of our song on her page. My only wish is to get a clear answer and get out of these uncertainties. the pain i feel it’s unbearable and depressing pray for me guys ! God bless y’all

my bf and i saw eachother for the first time since we broke up at a party. we cuddled, hooked up, and he gave me a ride home, bought me breakfast, and kissed my cheek. but i asked if we were still “forever” and he said “i don’t know” … but still said, “i love you and i miss you”. what does this mean for me? edit: he let me rest my head on his lap and i closed my eyes, he was petting my head and rubbing my cheek and i caught him staring at me when i opened my eyes.

Me and my girl broke up on good terms, we made eachother happy, had a good bond and fun, but in the end, we had different values and lifestyles and she thought we wasn’t suited for eachother, and my lack of experience and maturity made me make silly mistakes like overthinking which overwhelmed her and made her back away slowly. Its been 5 months no contact and thought a letter where i take accountability for my silly mistakes, tell her what i’ve been up to and how worked on myself a lot and ask her if she’d be open to getting back in touch and catching up with one another again would be good being as a letter seemed a bit more authentic and thoughtful rather than a random call or text after 5 months. Im not hoping or expecting the letter to work instantly but thought it could be a start maybe. This sound like a good idea to anybody or not??

He said he didn’t feel love. I have been neglecting his love for 6-7 years. I use my travel as my ultimate protection that I can meet my friends n talk lightly. Whereas seeing him is staying home n resting. I went on my individualist mode n forgot to disarm it. Not going to lie, anywhere I go I only think about him. I wish he is around. He is there with me. N I never planned on accepting, flirting, meeting other guys . Not once in all the years. My heart is committed to him but my legs and arms are not . I always know I lose him I’ll be so regret but at the same time I know someone would be so so so happy to be with him. I’m feeling a mess. We broke up already a year ago. He even stated that it was before that our relationship got so wobbly. He was alone in a new country n I didn’t go see him often but I went to see my friends here and there. I can’t even forgive myself. Action speaks louder than words. Even when we broke up in April 2021. I didn’t come back to find him right away. I continued to travel n continue for another 4 months before I can’t hold it anymore I really miss him n I came back. I cried everyday everynight in my trip. Thinking about him day in day out. That was ridiculous. Really ridiculous. He didn’t feel love. Although he said he still attracted to me that was 3 months after we broke up. In July ( maybe not now) cuz he is seeing someone already. At first we still meet each other . But i decided this isn’t leading anywhere and it really hurt my feeling . So I tried to stay away .

There’s no signs to look for. Be a man and walk away!!!!! The more you keep going back to someone who doesn’t deserve you the more you hurt yourself. The more your self love drops. Love yourself and move on. Life is a single player experience. We came alone and we are going to die alone. Heal and move on Be a man. The one who’s meant to be with you will be there. Don’t wait for something that isn’t meant for you. Dont look for any signs and just Walk away!!!!!!

Hey Brad…. I recently found out that she really started dating someone else just days after we broke up(which she still won’t admit btw) . So I texted her that this breakup helped me to learn a lot about my life and made me a better person and that i’m fine without her and all that stuff. I just wanted her to regret her decision not that i badly want her back or anything. Did i do the right thing? Or did i mess up big time? What do i do? I just want her to feel something. And she’s so stubborn that i don’t think No contact is gonna work on her. What if she really loves that guy and has completely forgotten about me?

I feel like a loser for perusal these but i got broken up with 2 weeks ago. She told me that we needed time to mature and grow as people. This gives me time to learn and grow from mistakes, although I had talked to her for the 2 weeks we’ve been apart. She still loves me and I too still love her. But I’ve got hooe that we will work out in the future, she’s the one and i know it, I can’t imagine life without her.

Hi, I’ve just gone through a break up. And we had a great relationship. We had been together for 7 years. And we had a alittle argument, in the last few weeks of our relationship. we seem to drift apart. And then she ended it due to depression. How can you save a relationship with someone who’s suffering with depression? Love you hear your thoughts thanx

I will always love HER. I will never forget HER. I will also always remember all the people from the past who were ever nice to me and made me feel good about myself. I will also not forget the girls that called me ugly,lied to me,played me,my looks is not my fault. You see now,what is going on in the world,so much evil.👎

Hi Brad I’m really confused my ex has been reaching out to me and told me today he still likes me but doesn’t want to get back together because he thinks he’s too immature for a relationship and is worried he’s going to hurt me and he wants to stay single. We are planning on meeting tomorrow in person. It’s after my no contact period. I had all your signs except one. Any advice

As of today I’m on week 3 of no contact. Nervous. Feeling better and better each day but it’s still tough. I’m gaining my confidence back, however I still feel upset. I wonder if it would be wise to make no contact an extra week or two for myself. She broke up with me. I immediately went into no contact because I remember this website from years ago.

I truly believed with everything that me and my ex were meant to be, I thought he did too, we were in a long distance relationship and it turned out he was with another female from his home town, it’s been a year now and he’s been asking to get back together, I just don’t know if it’s a right move, it feels like everything is broken beyond repair, I tried with everything to make it work but it still seemed as though my efforts weren’t enough and not recognized and now here he is, I don’t know it’s a little too much

please come back antonio. i’m the girl who was by your side for so long patiently just waiting for you to change. i stuck with you no matter what because i actually loved you. she doesn’t bro. don’t give up on me you do not get to just be happy and leave me alone with all this pain you caused me. come back

I may need to see a therapist, but after having no contact since the end of 2008, a failed marriage, and a current toxic relationship, I still can’t stop thinking about this particular person. We grew up together and I feel that I was the toxic one. They don’t want contact with me, but right when I feel I’m finally working past the memory of them, I have a dream of them bringing me back to.those feelings. How can I respect the memory of that person and NOT miss them. I mean, it’s been over 10 years and they’re married. Why and how?

I’m a truck driver and not home very often. Well an old friend she wanted years ago popped into the picture and they had an evening together. She claims nothing happened. But she still wanted to end it after dating over a year. She also says that him and her could never be together. I need to follow the no contact rule. But I did score a 75. Hopefully she will come back.

This article help me alot thank you brad. Me and my ex were in a relationshio for almost 6 solid years, But this past few weeks i’ve feel doubts,fear and controlling that is growing inside me that bring disaster for our relationship i always argue with him for no reason and i suddenly he gave up he said he wants us to stop our relationship and have space and focus on our goals. But he suddenly said he wants me to forget about him. I don’t know what he means? I was so afriad to ask, cause i dont want to here his answer that will shatter me into pieces.

Man this is so hard for me. I’m trying to forget about him because we were both in a not-so-healthy relationship. I was the reason for half of these. I lost feelings mid relationship, I had a guy friend that he didn’t like/did not approve of, and I just didn’t know whether to end the relationship or not. I was suffering from depression and he helped me but I just feel like I crushed his heart. He also kind of invalidated my feelings and made me uncomfortable with him knowing that it’s making me uncomfortable, and after we broke up, he asked out one of my best friends and when she rejected him, he asked if he can date me again. but now that I think about it, I don’t care. I know that me and him are meant for eachother, there’s this tension between me and him. I need him. I feel like he hates me, but I love him (enemies to lovers?😏) anyways yeah that’s what I have to say. Any advice?

My ex, and I have recently started talking and are planning on getting back together 10 years ago, we were going to move out of state and my dad needed care, so I stayed back, and he remarried . I just lost my dad recently at the same time he’s going through a divorce . We didn’t know this was going on behind the scenes I called to wish him a happy birthday, and we never stopped talking

I moved down to Cali with her after two years of long distance and an 8 month break up. I was there for 3 weeks and was going through a lot of mental stuff in my head. (Not because of her) I left and it hurt her so bad. It’s been 1.5 months since it happened. I love her so damn much. She still has our picture up on her fridge. She told me that she can’t be that person for me right now and maybe our paths will cross again in the future. I know she’s my one and only! I feel it in my bones and in my soul. We somehow always find our way back to each other. She knows I want to come back, but she said she’s not ready. What do I do???

Over 12 years later & I still love him. I can’t get him out of my head. He’s the only one that ever made me feel loved. He supported me in my goals & always had my back. We just started talking again as friends, but I did admit to him that I’m still in love with him. He told me that I was his last relationship & he misses me too. The problem is I’m in a current relationship (we’re drifting apart though), & we live in separate states. I’m still holding onto hope that I’ll see him again one day, even if we don’t get back together. I think I’m more in love with him now than I was 12+ years ago❤

Clean honest habits help both ways, don’t be a dirt bag ether way,keep in the hear and now and enjoy the moments together, you can grow apart or grow together, direction, values and treat each other the way you want to be treated . There are a few people that enjoy hurting other people so stear clear,read the red flags for what they are . Sometimes you can learn a lesson and not make a silly mistake again . A loving person lives in a loving world, a hostile person lives in a hostile world,sometimes good looking people have bad hearts and big egos, intention what is a persons intention

i’m so lost. my parents forced our breakup due to personal reasons and my family not thinking he was good enough for me. he was there for my every moment and has always been here and we had deep physically and emotional connection together. we are very close. we’re going to take the next couple months to work on ourselves and reassess later. i want to get back with him and we have so much love together it’s just so hard

Hi guys I’m going to assure you that this works 100% but trust me, you don’t want it I remembered binge perusal all these articles when I got my first breakup and followed the instructions, months later we got back together it was like a dream come true but it was never the same no matter how we tried It’s just going back in circles and the same pattern of the reason we broke up earlier.. and now, here I am against after dating for 4 months after getting back together As someone that has had this experiences I’m just sharing my opinion You’ll get back, but it’s not going to be any better Focus on yourself and transmute the pain to your goals..you’ll attract whatever that is meant for you. Again, don’t try to glue a broken glass and let go of the fantasy of that person..there’s plenty room for more

Hey Brad. My ex boyfriend and I were together back in 2017 and then we broke up in 2018. I left the country and went to Zambia a friend of mine reconnected me to him. She told me to reach out to him and when I did he was happy to hear from me. He told me that he owed me clarity and we need to sit down and talk then he said he didn’t have a girlfriend…but when I called him it went to voice-mail. I didn’t come back to the USA in time for us to meet. When I came back to the states he changed his number and I never got to hear what he wanted to tell me. I’m in touch with his best friend and I heard he isn’t doing well. what should I do? I miss him and want us to talk.

Hey. Brad just wanted to know i have followed your no contact rule and got good results. Now when my ex and are talking after no contact of 45 days. I am bit confused whether I should be polite like earlier but I feel desperate to talk to him so I don’t want that and jump direct towards being in relationship. Because what he did in past I don’t want to suffer again that thing.I know he is regretting for mistakes making changes but right now we are in long distance and also I don’t know whether I Should in future again come in relationship or just improve this thing by friendship and then heal the things which got ruined clear the mess and then for relationship if it makes my soul happy. Please suggest me some advice. Waiting for your reply

Hey Brad, my gf and I broke up a week before valentine’s day this February because of arguements that started qt Dec 28, which I gave her qbout 2 weeks of NC until Jan 14 when she contacted me because she got covid and told me to not come to their house. But the next day, we had an uber big fight because she kept blaming me about not understanding her depression and that how her friends makes her feel better by telling her sugarcoates words unlike me who drops hard and cold truth on her because she abruptly stopped taking her anti depressants. After that i gave her few mor weeks of NC to let her cool her head qnd when i came to her house at feb 6, she blew up on me and started blaming me for things i didnt do qnd started saying that i dont understand her like her friends but then she revealed that she didnt share things with me, like looking for methods of dealing with depression without meds. And then i lost it too and allowed myself to get angry. And after that, she initiated the break up, but i didny say anything about agreeing to it. I felt guilty for getting angry at her a few days later and tried to reach out but she just leaves me on read and blocks me when i mention her on comments or posts in fb. What do you think should i do? I’m just so confused with the entire thing.

Hey, Brad my ex and I broke up a little over a month ago and i’ve been perusal your articles to try to help with getting back with the woman I love most. I would really appreciate if you were to share your email with me so I can share the full story and maybe you can give me a few pointers or tips to help me get going in the right direction. I’ve already begun some steps like the NC for 30day’s and have reconnected with my ex. I know that you have your Ex factor guide and trust me I would if I could but I don’t have the greatest income right now and it doesn’t fit in with my budget. I would appreciate it very much if we could talk.

Hey, me and my gf broke up mid last week and i didnt react too much, some slight tear but nothing major, and ever since we havent spoken. ( we were together for 2 years). Ive posted pictures of me going out and about and she usually views them really fast – faster than normal. Shes going away for a few days doing something she loves. Do i send any message before hand or wait till after? Im worried that whilst shes away, she may just forget about us and me and be less inclined in the future for something between us. Im thinking however that she may realise she misses me and has no one to share what shes doing with as she doesnt interact with many people. Im really torn as i would like to rebuild our relationship at somepoint.

Hi coach I did every tips as u said and finally I got my gf back now we both are very happy and love.but deep inside I feel really scared that will she breakup with me again I feel this all the time and I can’t talk openly with her I just feel scared of losing her I don’t wanna lose her but I can’t talk openly I don’t know why what should I have to do

Hi Brad, I watched your vvideos I really liked them, but I feel that my situations is kinda simmilar but different. I broke up with my gf a week ago and I feel really bad inside, but we still chatting snaping sharing vibes and say to each other that I really like your pictures, your smile… But the problem is that my ex gf wants freedom after the break up and undertake to herself, that means she want to have one night stands, parties and other stuf, jsut to have wild life without undertaking with others but with herself. But she mentioned, that its a possibility that we can be together if I change my dark side of personality, but mentioned that we can chat call meet and even have sex life but with that other thing is happen that we can do what ever we want cause we broke up, but if as she mentioned i will change myself to better me, we can go to the date and fix broken relationship and make it even better, but I dont know what to do with that, I need a little advise, thank u.

Hey Brad, I’ve got a wild one, was engaged to a guy for 8 years and had an amicable split, I ended up getting with a guy a a fling turned into 6 weeks of a beautiful romance with deep talks etc. I was on really strong pain killers at the time waiting for an operation so I was living on a cloud. I got freaked out by how fast I was falling for this guy and how soon it was after the break up of my engagement. I broke it off with the guy I was falling madly for and then i got with a friend of a friend and we stayed together for 3 years and had a baby. We’ve split now and I’m a single mum and I’ll be honest I’ve not stopped thinking about that guy, we had such a connection even before we met. I blocked him on everything to try and forget him but it obviously didn’t work. I’ve tried adding him on Facebook but he hasn’t posted anything in 2 years so I don’t think he uses it anymore. Do I add him on Instagram and message him or do I just leave it? I know he had feelings atleast a year after we’d split as he showed up at my work in a suit, I was in a relationship at the time so I left despite him waiting for me to finish my shift. I feel like I really messed up and I want to explain myself but don’t want to come across too strong. I’ve never ever in my life felt so strongly about someone. Do I send a big message, small message, no message? Please help

My ex bf and I dated when I was 21, then 25 yrs later back 2gethr for almost 11yrs and up and dumps me but we had problems last couple yrs. We’re still roommates and we still love each other so much but he can’t leave women alone on internet alone and it broke me when I found out how long he had an online affair 💔 🙃 He’s a Great guy and has changed me for the better ❤ but we just can’t seem to get it together because of things I have also done in the past but there’s so so so much and I’m no airing it all for the world to see. But what do I do, keep playing house and hope he changes his mind or move on