YouTube star Joey Sarson is engaged to transgender YouTuber Blaire White, who has been a vocal advocate for transgender rights. The couple got engaged in 2018 after dating for some time. White, who has been criticized for her conservative YouTube videos, has gained popularity through her appearance on Alex Jones’ far-right conspiracy theory show. As of 2021, they are no longer together.
White, who is also a YouTuber and fitness enthusiast, has engaged in numerous public debates with public figures such as Ben Shapiro, ContraPoints, Piers Morgan, and Onision. However, her rise in the right-wing space came with her appearance on Alex Jones’ far-right conspiracy theory show.
White, who was born on September 14, 1993, is an American transgender anti-feminist activist known for her fiery views on YouTube. As of 2023, her net worth is around $226K.
Blair Underwood, a former Sex and the City actor, is engaged to his longtime friend Josie Hart. White has been engaged to Sarson since August 2019, and she has shared her personal life and relationship on TikTok.
White has also shared a video on TikTok expressing her excitement about her engagement to Sarson. However, she has also expressed her concerns about the relationship and the potential for a future separation.
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In really glad y’all worked through this. I have a similar reaction with alcohol. My life got so much better once I gave it up. I don’t know how I could have dealt with some recent real difficulties in my life had I still been drinking…I don’t think I would still be alive if I had still been drinking.
Thank you for sharing and speaking up about this. As I’ve grown up, it’s become more and more clear to me just how much our society normalizes alcoholism and drinking. As a kid I didn’t know any different, but once I entered my late teens I realized that about 65-70% of the adults I knew growing up were alcoholics or had drinking problems and I could see so many other people my age starting to build the same habits and addictions. I began to really take notice of how music, TV, and movies all normalized these behaviours and even portrayed it them as fun and cool. To this day, it still scares me that so many people aren’t seeing that it’s a serious issue to mental, physical, and emotional health.
I have been through something very similar with my boyfriend. In the beginning, my boyfriend was depressed and going through a lot of shit. He also had and has a very hard time controlling the amount he drinks, he also doesn’t know when to stop. Many holidays and birthdayd were ruined because of the problem. Now we are stronger than ever. Thankfully, we were able to make it through the problem and he has not had an uncontrollable night of drinking in a very long time. It’s exactly like Blaire was saying, if it is worth fixing then fix it. I have never believed in just giving up. Unless I am seriously wronged, I will always work on things. I am honestly so grateful that we worked through it all because I love him more than anything and he loves me. I really very much relate to this article Blaire, thank you for posting it and talking about this. So many people are quick to just giving up nowadays and it’s very refreshing to see someone saying this.
Listening to your flaws like Joey takes some balls and commitment. I had BPD triggers with alcohol, no excuses, i even hit people and it took a toll on my past relationship (it didn’t end because of this), so what could i do? Stop drinking at all. I did not have an issue with alcohol, but my mental disorder made it a problem, cause i wasn’t drunk! some alcohol just triggered blackouts and mental lagoons. No excuses, just lean down, listen to the things you did wrong and work it out. What a good article.
Hope everything works our for you two. My husband of almost 27 years and I almost left each other for the same reason. We made the decision that our relationship and life together meant way more to us than alcohol and partying – we stopped drinking over 22 years ago and would never go back – love can make you whole as a couple if you make the right sacrifices for each other. Good luck.
This is great. You both are such good role models in this. A lot of people wouldn’t take any kind of “talk” like that from their partners without feeling personally attacked and getting defensive, but you two are showing the world that everyone can improve. It’s good to know that you guys want the best for each other and you won’t give up. I’m proud.
Hey Blaire. I recently broke up with my boyfriend of four years, who also had a lot of problems with alcohol… What you describe with the blacking out and not knowing when to stop is something that I recognize and sympathize with. I really loved him a lot, and similar to you, I felt that he was the only one that understood and loved me. He was the first real relationship I had, and I really thought we would be together forever. When he did things that hurt me, he would apologize and acknowledge he had a problem but I never felt that he really accepted how much he hurt me with his behavior… Sometimes he would seem guilty, but I think that just made his behavior worse. In the end, I think that although we cared about each other, it was too difficult to keep the relationship going, and the resentment had built up between us to the point that it was hard to keep going. I’m still going through the breakup difficulty right now, so I’m not at the end of the tunnel, yet, so I can’t say whether I’m better off yet. I think it is good that Joey acknowledges the hurtfulness of his behavior and is seeking treatment – problems like this are easiest to manage at the beginning, before things get too bad. I think if he keeps going to therapy and keeping away from the alcohol, and more importantly focusing on the roots of his anxiety (which my boyfriend also had, severely) he will be better off. I sincerely hope that things work out between you and more importantly that Joey can work out his feelings so he doesn’t delve too deeply into a potentially disastrous habit.
IMO a relationship is measured not by the good times those are easy its how you handle the bad times. The bad times can test your relationship more than anything and the better they’re handled as a couple the stronger that couple is whereas if those times end a relationship it’s probably for the best of everyone so if it’s worth keeping you’ll get through the bad times together so keep at it life loves to toss curveballs everything isn’t easy so good luck
Joey I had the exact issue with the sauce. I can’t just drink one.. I have to have as many as I can get. 2 things that helped me… 1. I found something to take the place of drinking. I know easier said than done but playing guitar and going to concerts took the time away that I had to drink. 2. I worked more hours. Anything i could do to keep away from spending time from drinking made it more difficult to want to drink. Im not saying it works for everyone but it helped me. Keep plugging away. Effort doesnt go unnoticed and Blair seems to be very forgiving.
I would drink too when there’s this much anxiety and pressure going on I think you need to try to create a more comfortable environment where you are equals and you are not a mother or above him. As a alcoholic (I haven’t drank for 6 years) You can’t quit drinking and keep an Anxious environment that makes you want to drink. Think about the triggers you even admitted – when he’s with YOUR friends and YOUR stuff… I noticed the way I drank was directly related to my environment. I took out people that give me anxiety and certain places that did and I didn’t need to drink ! You don’t talk about him or his life u talk about yourself how he adds to your life and how you feel with him. He has no “voice” – he drinks to feel better about himself. The way you just exploited him and had him do this article about him drinking and embarrass him in front of everybody- n I’m sure “he WANTED TO DO it was his idea” because you’ve brainwashed him- but he will resent u for all of this. Quitting drinking is like trying not to not wear mittens when u go out in the cold . U can’t remove the mittens you have to change the weather or stop going outside. I think now he should make a 10 minute article about your flaw that hinders the relationship. Just so we have a fair perspective.
On a very real level, this is a lot of relationships. Good, solid, very loving couples who get into a tail spin because of alcohol or drug abuse. Props to them for their willingness to share to maybe help others in the same boat. And more props to both of you for being willing to do your part to try to fix the issues at hand before throwing in the towel. Wish you both a wonderful 2020 and many, many decades beyond.❤️
My husband doesn’t know when to stop. He can drink a ton for a small man. I’ve never seen anything like it. I don’t drink, and alcohol has totally been a negative factor in our relationship. For 2 years my husband treated me so bad, and we almost ended it. I feel I’m the only one that finds alcohol a horrible drug. Everyone says it’s normal to drink. What’s normal?
I totally agree that long engagements are perfectly acceptable. If you have found your person, the person you KNOW you want to spend your life with, even through problems, staying engaged (which I’m glad you came around to) is totally fine. Even if you have to spend time apart to let things calm down and straightened out. Of course it’s also important to support each other so long as you know it will get better with work. So glad y’all took steps to resolving this! Btw total power couple fr
So this just showed up on my feed and I have to say, I really appreciate this article. I’m a southern “white” Christian conservative and I often feel so patronized by the LGBTQ community. They talk down to us like kindergarteners most of the time, being weird and just.. Weird. But when this article started, I immediately knew it wasn’t going to be one of those. You’re both honest and open, you speak to us as guests in your home and not random social media users your trying to indoctrinate us with your view of how you think the world should be. Instead, you simply opened your world up a little for us to get to know a little better. Thank you for that. It’s refreshing already and I haven’t even finished perusal.
Blaire he is a total keeper. My husband and I both laughed at his Mai crush. He is so open and honest and he is such a kind hearted person. You two are perfect for each other. I’m a total Tomboy who is married to a very masculine man and we have been married for 15 years and we finish each other’s sentences. Two people just need to understand each other.
i love blaire cause your mannerisms and how you talk, explain things. It reminds me of me. Im not saying youre neruodivergent, I am tho and im just perusal you exist and interact with other people or the camera, it just reminds me of me so much but youre so much more graceful, love anyway yall are a beautiful couple <3