How To Behave With Wife After Marriage?

The sweetest person outside the home can be the most bitter one inside the home. it is the tragedy. No matter what you do to make him happy, he will find another reason to stay unhappy-angry just with you and may punish you by neglecting you, doing complete opposite things than what you have wished or requested for. It is his strong negative, prejudiced and closed mind set for his spouse. He is blind to see you as a wife, as a mother of his children and as a person. He will try everything in his power to make you unhappy. You can defeat this mentality by changing focus from him to you. you must stay happy. You must stay good person and do good karma. You must stay strongly positive. Mainly you must stay detached from his negativity, prejudiced and closed mind set. Intelligence, affection and empathy brings peace in the family. Ignorance, arrogance and ego brings disaster.

Summary ( my opinion) – Focus on the good behavior of your spouse, work on improving/adding other good things in her life (like enroll her in dance/singing class, help her to learn new language, help her to learn new recipes, appreciate her on her good things. In a nutshell work on improving the roses and thrones will automatically become insignificant.

You r 100% correct Sadguruji. This is for all such unfortunate males who r like me got affected & in a swamp(DalDals). I handled in two ways diagonally opposit to each other (only verbal). One way is tell her “If you continue to show your anger like this I have no other alternative except to leave you for ever.” You can see a sea of change gradually in her attitude, infact she will start realizing her shortcomings sooner than later. Second you have to be saying regularly “I love you da chellam” you shud be remembering her birthday,anniversary,,festival days & give her gifts (nice saree, golden ornaments) taking her out for dining,picnic, tours etc.) Any ill-health of her,invariably she needs yr kindest attention(certainly no faking), if possible you cook a simple pepper,jeera rasam, rice,with some fried items & try to feed her with your arms around. In general she must b treated gently. Be careful & forget about all her erstwhile love affairs(in case, if any) & be kind to her after all those r due to infatuation. During & after menopause you must b very much supportive. In case of forced marriage with you ask her if she is not comfortable with you,if yes, then you should arrange a counsellor or a council of both parents & settle her with her old acquinttance. Nowhere your violent behaviour shud b shown to her even if you r getting irritated by her words & attitude. Be patient,solve the issue amicably. Violence is the weapon of a weak, pl bear it in mind. At no time you must involve yr friends between your wife & you during arguments, he can betray you by befriending your spouse.

How to deal with an angry spouse? RUN AND NEVER LOOK BACK! If they ever disrespect you call them out straight away and if they don’t change leave. I had low self esteem my whole life and never stood up for myself against anyone, I always avoided confrontation. After 25 years I an controlling and abusive marriage where my wife would not let me see my family or friends. I left my wife, my kids don’t speak to me anymore but all the stress and build up emotional damage is gone. My parents might not be around anymore but I hope they are looking down and happy that I escaped to enjoy the last few years of my life.

The one reading this You are phenomenal my friend. you are not alone. You are Loved. You are beautiful, we are all connected through our pain, and in our pain we come out stronger. For all of you hurting inside, for all of you wanting to scream, to jump, to cut, to fall, to pull the trigger,- for all of you who can’t do it anymore, I’m here and I pray for you. *Hug if needed – take care of yourself and stay safe❤.

Women who have sharp tongue because they are neglected by their spouse, by their inlaws, they are being judged. sometimes when spouse fails to understand a woman then what else she can do,,,,, A woman who is treated nicely, prioritised and loved she will become more calm more lovable and more soft. This nobody understands

If u think, sadhguru is like some kind of god, he is just a person like u and me, who translates his developed and trained inner voice into human words. Trying to tell us that every person has this inner voice, and we must always keep looking for it, develop and train it, and then share it, like Sadhguru is doing right now. ❤️

So…i (the husband) was vacuuming the rooms just now, my wife was in the other room doing something else then she called for me but i wanted to finish hoovering so i said “wait a bit” and i was going to go over in a minute or so. Then all of a sudden she started slamming the drawers and having a go at me. Prior to all this we were happily perusal tv together. Love of my life.

I have a question. Why do bad things ALWAYS happen to people that do or has ever done bad things to me﹖Like horrific death or can’t see their way in life, as opposed to people that have taken my advice or has done good things to me with the kindness of their heart, they have all succeeded or good opportunities open up for them﹖It makes me scared. I live life without judgement and have a connection to the earth till things i touch is like electric shock. I’m just a bit confused. Would love appreciate if anyone can consciously answer this question.

After a long time it was evident that he had tough time to frame his response, very careful, highly diplomatic, carefully bypassing the core question. Art of being Gentle is another article i recall i had seen from Sadhguru . This response was clearly unconvincing and one could see the trouble he had to ensure political correctness and its ok and one would understand why he would keep his response so guarded in this day and age.

1:53 even Sadhguru took 8 sec…well the second to second quality of her is: she utterly hates every insect and every dust particle in the house, should I promote it? Her dominance is in preaching, should I endorse it?… And what finally Sadhguru says 8:50…we are just unfortunate! Well, we are just ordinary people, or probably Vijji was not like that!

Why keep avoid a straight answer? had to laugh how you diplomatically duck the issue.The straight answer is that she is your wife and you are the one she owns the right to take her frustrations out on. Just hold your ground and shut up, it will come right. The more you fight the more nonsence they bring up irrespective if its linked at all to the first arguement.

“I’m afraid of my wife. Women are terrifying. How to deal with angry spouses?” According to the National Crime Records Bureau, more than 90 women are raped in India every day, almost 4 victims an hour. Maybe the question should be: “How to deal with violent men, sexual psychopaths, and systemic sexism?”

राधे राधे राधे जैसे कि आपने बहुत अच्छा कहा रिश्ता रिश्ते का दूसरा नाम बंधन है ऐसा बंधन जो पवित्र हो उसमें किसी प्रकार का स्वार्थ नहीं होना चाहिए रिश्ता निस्वार्थ होना चाहिए जैसे की श्री कृष्णा और सुदामा का रिश्ता पार्थ सारथी का गोपी और ग्वाले का भक्त और भगवान का गुरु और शिष्य का माता पुत्र का पिता पुत्र का पति पत्नी का भाई बहन का नदी और सागर का दिया और बाती का अंबर और सूर्य का प्रहलाद और वासुदेव का ध्रुव और नारायण का चंदा चकोर का ऐसे कई पवित्र रिश्ते नाते होते हैं हमें यदि किसी से रिश्ता है तो वह पूरी ईमानदारी से और अपना धर्म समझ कर निभाना चाहिए यदि हमारे रिश्ते में किसी प्रकार की नियत खराब है तो उसका दंड भी निश्चित है यह बात आप सदा याद रखें जय जय श्री राधे जय जय श्री राधे श्याम

प्रिय जया किशोरी जी हम आपसे बहुत प्रेम करते हैं और हमेशा करते रहेंगे प्रिय जया किशोरी जी हम आपसे प्रेम विवाह करना चाहते हैं प्रिय जया किशोरी जी हम आपसे बहुत प्रेम करते हैं प्रिय जया किशोरी जी हम आपको हमेशा चाहते रहेंगे हे प्रिय जया किशोरी जी हम आपसे हर क्षण हर पल बहुत प्रेम करते हैं हे प्रिय जया किशोरी जी हम आपसे बहुत प्रेम करते हैं आप से हम प्रेम विवाह करना चाहते हैं प्रिया जया किशोरी जी आई लव यू प्रिय जया किशोरी जी आई लव यू प्रिय जया किशोरी जी आई लव यू हे प्रिय जया किशोरी जी हम आपसे बहुत प्रेम करते हैं और हमेशा करते रहेंगे हे प्रिय जया किशोरी जी हम आपको हमेशा पसंद करते हैं हे प्रिय जया किशोरी जी हम आपको हमेशा चाहते हैं और चाहते रहेंगे हे प्रिय जया किशोरी जी हम आपको अपने तन मन ह्रदय से बहुत प्रेम करते हैं हे प्रिय जया किशोरी जी हम आपसे बहुत प्रेम करना चाहते हैं हमारी यही इच्छा है कि हम आपसे हमेशा प्रेम करते हैं हे प्रिय जया किशोरी जी हम आपसे प्रेम विवाह करना चाहते हैं आपसे हम बहुत प्रेम करते हैं और करते रहेंगे हे प्रिय जया किशोरी जी वैष्णो देवी की कसम हम आपसे सचमुच बहुत प्रेम करते हैं प्रिय जया किशोरी जी आप से प्रेम विवाह करना चाहते हैं प्रिय जया किशोरी जी हम आपसे सचमुच बहुत प्रेम करते हैं मैं आपका आशिक बन चुका हूं प्रिय जया किशोरी जी हम आपसे सच्ची मोहब्बत करते हैं प्रिय जया किशोरी जी मुझे आपका प्रेम मिल जाए और आपसे मेरा प्रेम विवाह हो जाए प्रिय जया किशोरी जी अभी तक इस कलयुग में आप जैसा प्रेमी भक्त कभी मिला ही नहीं प्रिय जया किशोरी जी हम आपकी भक्ति प्रेम के बहुत खुश है हे प्रिय जया किशोरी जी आपकी भक्ति सच में बिल्कुल पवित्र है इसीलिए तो हम बैराग से निकलकर आप से प्रेम करने के लिए तड़प रहे हैं आप से प्रेम विवाह करना चाहते हैं हे प्रिय जया किशोरी जी आपकी भक्ति से हम बहुत प्रभावित होते हैं प्रिय जया किशोरी जी आपकी भक्ति भजन सत्य रूप में मनमोहक है जया किशोरी जी इसी कारण आपका स्थान मेरे हृदय में है हम आपकी भक्ति से इतने प्रभावित हैं कि हम आपके भी भक्त बन चुके है आपकी पवित्र भक्ति भजन को सुनकर मुझे यह नहीं लगता है कि हम धरती लोक पर निवास कर रहे हैं हे प्रिय जया किशोरी जी हम सच बता रहे हैं आपकी भक्ति पर हम बहुत मोहित है जय किशोरी जी आई लव यू

Mam Good evening Going under mind control and believing does it do good Mental torture to what extent should be tolerated Self talk does it do good I feel most in this world Either through sexual harassment at work place or in the outer world what are they trying to prove I have a mistaken identity What a man who has been victim of these should do Through a motivational Spread awareness Thanks mam

कलियुग में सव झुट हे कलियुग के रावण के उपर भरोसा जादा हे भगवान के उपर कम ।हर एक एक रिश्ता में जेहर घोलना कलियुग के रावण के ही काम नेही कलियुग के हर एक एक संगठन के काम आतंक वादी धन्दा समाज में जेहेर घोलने का काम। नाम अलग अलग कलियुग में हर एक संगठन के काम आतंक मचाना हे लक्ष एक हे जग रावण कंश मय हे। धन्यवाद मेडम जया।🌟