What Is A Marriage Swindler?

The Netflix documentary “The Tinder Swindler” follows the story of Simon Leviev, a man who meets women on dating apps and fosters relationships with them. The movie, directed by Herbert Selpin and starring Eduard von Winterstein and Viktoria von Ballasko, provides a dangerous look into world-class fraud run by a bachelor who possess to be a billionaire. The movie has climbed to the No. 2 spot on the streaming service’s top 10 movies in the country.

Swindlers are scammers who con people to make a buck, often taking advantage of the weakness of others through deceit. They are criminals who defraud others by imposition or deliberate artifice. To protect yourself from romance scammers, meet in person, use paid dating services, and guard any information that can be used for fraud.

Married to a hitman named Gero, the titular scammer, reportedly took $10 million from women he met on dating apps. The movie explores the dangers of pretending to be someone else online and the potential consequences of being tricked or outwitted.

In Hungarian, the term “married swindler” refers to a man who makes women dizzy by making them believe they are single and longing to marry. In addition to celebrities, the swindler also conned some of the world’s most famous banks and charities.


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What is a violet marriage?

These marriages lacked emotional intimacy. They were for show. Many still hide their true selves due to family and societal issues.

What is the purpose of a lavender marriage?

The Supreme Court hearings on marriage equality made people think about how queerness is not accepted in our society. A “lavender marriage” is a heterosexual marriage between two non-heterosexual people. It allows the couple to avoid the stigma of queerness and sometimes also the legal, social, and financial benefits of marriage. But a lavender marriage is rarely the first choice of a queer person. It’s often the last resort of someone struggling to cope with social and cultural pressures. Anjana, a 23-year-old who had hidden her bisexuality from her family, told The Swaddle, “I would rather keep parts of my life hidden than deal with their backlash.” In less than two years, the topic of lavender marriages has become a part of public discourse in India twice. In 2022, the movie Badhaai Do about a gay man and a lesbian woman entering into a lavender marriage won several awards.

What does it mean to have a lavender marriage?

The film looks at the concept of “lavender marriages” in India. A lavender marriage is a gay marriage. Usually, but not always, both parties are assumed to be lying about their sexuality. In the 21st century, some gay Hollywood actors got married to protect their careers. Get the latest news on India’s general elections on the HT App. Download now! Download Now! But in the 21st century, with Section 377 being struck down and support for the LGBTQIA community, isn’t exploring this concept a bit regressive? But it makes us think: is this common among families?

What is the definition of marriage?
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What is the definition of marriage?

Marriage is a union between a man and a woman that is regulated by laws, rules, and customs. It gives the partners rights and duties and status to their offspring.

Marriage is a legally and socially sanctioned union between a man and a woman. It is regulated by laws, rules, customs, beliefs, and attitudes that prescribe the rights and duties of the partners and accords status to their offspring (if any). Marriage is a universal institution because it provides structure for many basic social and personal functions. These include sexual gratification and regulation, division of labor between the sexes, economic production and consumption, and the satisfaction of personal needs for affection, status, and companionship. Marriage is also about having children, taking care of them, and teaching them how to behave. Marriages have taken many forms over time. (See exchange marriage, group marriage, polyandry, polygamy, and tree marriage. See also common-law marriage.

Jim Obergefell in a convertible at the San Francisco Gay Pride Parade on June 28, 2015. That year he was the plaintiff in a Supreme Court case that made same-sex marriage legal. By the 21st century, the meaning of marriage in Western countries had changed. In 2000, the Netherlands became the first country to legalize same-sex marriage. It went into effect on April 1, 2001. In the years that followed, many other countries, including Canada, France, the United States, and Germany, also legalized same-sex marriage. Some countries gave same-sex couples benefits and obligations through registered partnerships or civil unions. These terms meant different things in different contexts.

What is a lavender relationship?

A lavender relationship is when two people agree to date or marry as if they are heterosexual. Most bearded couples are made up of one or two gay people. The goal of this relationship is to seem straight to others. The partners often have no romantic ties. Some people enter into these agreements knowingly, while others keep it a secret. In the Irish film Dating Amber, high schoolers Amber and Eddie agree to “date” to end the abuse of their classmates about their sexuality. The teens explore what it means to be queer in 1995. The film follows the pair as they grow. They eventually split up, but they were both better off for it. This film shows a bearded couple trying to escape social ridicule while denying their true selves. These marriages and relationships still exist today, all over the world.

What is a shadow marriage?

Welcome to the Shadow Wedding Experience. A Shadow Wedding is an intimate ritual held before a regular wedding in which couples can discuss difficult topics. It provides a place for partners to talk about their darker sides and any doubts or fears about committing to a lifelong partnership. In a Shadow Wedding, partners choose each other with eyes wide open. In 2010, Jim Benson and Jessica Wolk Benson led their own Shadow Wedding. We want to share this powerful work with others. As a professional coach and therapist, we’ve created a safe process to support engaged couples through their Shadow Wedding experience. Why do a Shadow Wedding? Imagine this: A bride in a white dress makes her way down the aisle, smiling.

What are the three promises of marriage?
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What are the three promises of marriage?

The oldest wedding vows come from the medieval church. England had manuals for the dioceses of Salisbury and York. The first Book of Common Prayer, published in 1549, was based on the Sarum manual. The Church of England usually offered couples a choice when they agreed to marry. The couple could promise to love and cherish each other, or the groom could promise to love, cherish, and worship, and the bride to love, cherish, and obey.

Western Christianity Roman Catholic. Couples who marry in the Catholic Church make the same pledge to each other. The Rite of Marriage says the usual text in English is:

I, ____, take you, ____, to be my (husband/wife). I promise to be true to you in good times and bad, in sickness and in health. I will love and honor you all my life.

What makes a true marriage?

A satisfying marriage/relationship depends on love, commitment, trust, time, attention, good communication, partnership, tolerance, patience, openness, honesty, respect, sharing, consideration, generosity, willingness to compromise, constructive management of disagreements/arguments, willingness to see another’s viewpoint, ability and willingness to forgive/apologize, and fun. The list is simple, but it can be hard for couples to stay happy when things go wrong. There are many ways to strengthen a marriage or relationship. Sometimes couples wonder what’s wrong with their relationship. The following four areas of closeness can help couples assess their relationship and improve it when difficulties arise.

How can you tell if a marriage is sham?
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How can you tell if a marriage is sham?

In 2014, the law on immigration was updated to allow the Home Office to investigate sham marriages. A marriage is a sham if all of the following apply:

One or both of the parties are not from the UK. There is no real relationship between the parties. Either or both parties enter into the marriage to avoid UK immigration rules.

The Home Office investigates marriages where this is alleged. They will take action against those involved in the sham marriage. There are also related offenses, including:

Helping people enter the UK illegally and then arrange sham marriages; Conspiracy to help people enter the UK illegally; Deception (applying for UK residency after a sham marriage); Bigamy (being married before entering into a sham marriage); Perjury.

Is a marriage of convenience legal?
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Is a marriage of convenience legal?

The lack of a clear definition makes it hard to solve this social problem. The 2021 Green Paper distinguishes between marriages of convenience and fraudulent marriages. Marriages of convenience can be dissolved through divorce, but fraudulent marriages can only be annulled. Fraudulent marriages occur when foreigners submit fake documents to officials, who register these marriages in the National Population Register (NPR). The dissolution of a marriage of convenience through divorce means that one party must file for divorce. The person who started the divorce proceedings (the citizen) can’t be forced by the government to kick their partner out. This will be discussed later.

4.1 Parliamentary discussions and amendments of laws Marriage of convenience is more complex and difficult to combat through a revisiting of marriage, immigration, and refugee laws. Marriages of convenience are dangerous to society. They harm the institution of marriage and national security. More illegal foreigners mean less money for basic services. These marriages harm marriage and personal fulfillment. The state must protect marriage and national security by stopping people from breaking the law. But it must not intrude on marriage.

Why is it called a lavender marriage?
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Why is it called a lavender marriage?

Hollywood studios married their closeted actors, even if they didn’t want to. They were called “lavender marriages,” a way to hide the scandal.


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  • Women are socialized to think men are supposed to rescue them and on top of that, we’re taught to value romantic relationships above all else. Not to mention historically, we were not expected to have careers or even own property under our name. I have always been fascinated by the idea of women being called gold diggers when it was men who created a system that made us financially dependent on them so that they could feel powerful and dominant.

  • Even in TV show/romance books the guy is conveniently rich. It is a fantasy to have a rich easy life (full of love) fall into our lap, a life we don’t have to work for constantly. It is the real life version of cinderella-turning-into-a-princess story. That’s why women look over a rich man’s flaws and fall for them in movies, books, and apparently in real life.

  • This is why I think more people should read The Bluebeard Fairy Tale. Its the anti Beauty and the Beast. With Bluebeard, a mysterious and wealthy gentleman, hunting down women, charming/seducing them, and destroying them. The Bluebeard story warns you to be wary of such men and get the hell away from them, before you end up as one of his victims.

  • Blaming and shaming the victim seems like a feature of just about every type of scam from the Nigerian Bank scam to the Ponzi Scheme. Shaming the victim helps the scammers a lot. It makes it a lot harder to get out of the scam relationships. The victim shamers need to think they are too smart to fall for the scams.

  • Can you do a article on why calling animation as “just for kids” instead of a Medium caused negative treatment of the animation division; because after reading how Warner Bros studios decided to remove their best animation shows from all their streaming platforms is more heartbreaking to see how much hard work has gone to waste.

  • I did an econ paper in high school about how the fairy tales we grow up with influence our view on money and economics in general. When I told the teacher the topic I was writing on, she said, “Sounds like bullshit…” but I turned it in anyway. And she loved it. Even brought it to a convention of econ teachers that summer. We don’t think critically enough about the impact of these stories. If you think about it, Sleeping Beauty married a necrophiliac prince. Would she have married a necrophiliac commoner out of gratitude for waking her up?

  • I had friends who married men with higher income than them. That’s OK, that is the person that they love and chose. But they would kind of make me feel excluded (snide comments and such) because my partner earns less than me. I cut off those friendships and I wish them well. But they look at their husbands as a pillar of their economy.

  • When I was a kid I was made to feel inferior about my gender. I was told I was weaker and less capable of achieving status, respect or a fulfilling life without men. Some girls buy into it but I always questioned it. I never had dreams of being swept by “prince charming”, ie a rich man who will solve all my problems for me. It was because I was picked on for my gender so much I had to find a way to prove my capabilities to men. When girls grow to believe in thier own abilities, they will not dream of taming a bad boy or marrying rich to get what they want in life. Many girls do not grow out of thier inferiority complexes instilled in then since thier birth, as a result they’re stuck fantasizing about heroes rather than being one.

  • I feel like the “Fake Rich Guy” is the perfect counter to the “Gold digger”. Both transactiomalize their relationships. Its the perfect balance, if the women don’t care about the money it dosent work, it only works on people who do care about finances. If someone considered the financial status of someone their marrying or inted on marrying it isn’t true love, if money can make or break a relationship than thats not a real relationship.

  • This also reminds me of a article I once saw that talked about why beauty is more important to men and wealth is more important to women. They said it has a lot to do with the reproductive roles assigned by evolution. Women are dependent upon men during the course of the pregnancy and the immediate time after birth. This leads them to prioritise a mate who can find them food, shelter, protect them from possible predators and meet all the basic needs since they will find it hard to do that. It is also the reason why women are usually more picky than men and men not so much. They can just go from one to another because the burden of pregnancy is not their personal one. Not really related but just thought of it.

  • so would a sequel to this, be about the rich girl(unless they already covered it in a different article essay)? Outside of the gold digger trope, like the heiress, or the clichéd rich spinner, basically the women that end up getting targeted by gold digging conmen(or the black widower, which I guess would still called a bluebeard)

  • The tinder swindler situation made me pissed in so many ways. But then I remembered I’ve seen and hung out once with women in the past who like men like that. Nothing wrong with wanting a man with financially stability, but even some of the these “rich” guys are kinda shady as well. Real life is not the movies and many need to realize that. Even on social media, some of those posts are paid for, curated up by managers, scripts, etc. Everything that glitters isn’t gold.

  • This is why I firmly have always believed that society in general should be like a community and take care of each other instead of this toxic individualism. It really doesn’t make any sense to pursue rich guys whom benefit from these systems in place instead of ending up with working class men and women whom are poor. Yes money is important I get that but why not overthrow the system that places such huge value on money and make it so working class people get unions and other labor rights? Childcare should be universal, healthcare should be universal. Unions should be universal, etc. Instead of this hellscape of Uber in individualism we should have society and people in general raise each other like a village. I would be more than happy to pay my part for childcare and healthcare for women so they can have healthy lives, births, birth control, etc. It’s always toxic individualism capitalism that is to blame. We need a Democratic mixed market socialist system where workers have more labor rights, more control of the companies, basically stronger labor unions and co ops. We need market socialism imo or what the Nordic countries have!

  • I do blame the internet even though I use it a lot. I was almost scamed by scammers who said I owed for a loan and would arrest me. Thank god my Dad was there and I didn’t give them money.I think in the case of the tinder Swindler naivety lack of education and street smart. I don’t think it’s fair that they get blamed for having poor judgement. It’s why men like Simon get away with stuff because people are embarrassed to admit it.

  • More people need to wake up and realize that at the end of the day – we all just want to be truly loved, appreciated and accepted for who we are. Many people are having so many relationship struggles because they’re falling for the looks and money trap. More of us need to try real love with someone- rather than transactional, physical or both.

  • This is why the wealthy investment banker I’m dating doesn’t understand why I’m so guarded and cautious. Coming from old money and being born into so many opportunities doesn’t make sense to me, I grew up poor so it doesn’t seem REAL to me. He’ll have to keep being patient with me and I’ll need to meet everyone in his life, all his colleagues, everyone. I don’t want to be scared to trust him but I’ve heard all the stories so I am, it’s nothing personal against him.

  • Why do women fall for the rich guy? Women tend to seek out security since they subconscious are looking for stable environments to raise their children. Sometimes that security translates into being rich or being financially stable. That rich person can still be a monster though. I didn’t finish perusal the Tinder Swindler but what you said about a person being duped is not up to logic bit their unmet emotional needs makes a lot of sense. Many intelligent people have been brainwashed and abused for years that way because it is not about intellect but emotional awareness and sometimes they’re embarrassed to face the truth so their sink with the ship. Narcissists have this innate ability to seek out emotional vulnerability in others and pretend that they are supplying it whereas they are leeching on these people.

  • 4:13 For people who blame the survivors, let’s not act like this is an isolated incident. There are a lot of privileged Non-Disabled CIS-Het Men (especially in the South Asian Context) who exploit their partner and their family with dowry, demands post dowry settlement and major financial abuse where Wedding Jewellery is kept as collateral. It’s all around us.

  • Marilyn Monroe’s character in Gentleman Prefer Blondes Lorelei Lee said it best, “Do you want to end up in a loveless marriage ? lf a girl spends time worrying about the money she doesn’t have……how will she have any time for love?” Everyone want an easy life, and it’s sad but Money is a guarantee way to open up a lot of doors and remove a lot of hardships it’s not hard to see why anyone would go after a rich mate.

  • The first red flag 🚩 was the fact they met online. Quality men aren’t found online. Simon is now in trouble for using the Leviv name as currency 💴. Sorry if I met a guy claiming to be rich, wearing designer labels 🏷 and travelling in luxury transport, he should be financially well taken care of and shouldn’t require any funds from me. If he needs money 💴 I’d question his connections above ⬆️

  • Honestly? Women ( and I think pretty much everyone?) would want a life of no financial worries and to have constant highly stimulatory experiences. Who doesn’t dream of seeing the best sights, tasting the best foods, feeling on yourself the softest most comfortable clothing, bed sheets etc? Obviously it comes off as shallow but everyone would jump to the opportunity to have that life instead of a routine 9-5 life with constant economic worry. That’s why these scams work, because they feed that deep desire for that type of life. I would love that life but I’m also not stupid 😂and I know very few people could genuinely provide for such a lifestyle. Ladies…so just work hard, spend wisely, invest and give yourselves a little luxury here and there. It makes you have perspective and be less gullible.

  • I like the nice (not “nice”) but actually nice rich guys who are kind of nerdy, kind, and respectful. There is always that dream of finding a rich man that you can do things with. Or if your current job does not pay enough, having extra money will help in the long run. We all want to feel provided for even when we try to be independent. For me, if it is the right person, a rich guy can be the whole package: smart, funny, kind, again respectful, loyal, etc. I hate the trope of the abusive rich man who uses it as a way to dominate a woman or man and masking it as love. Edit: i meant the trope in romance versus what this article was about

  • It’s difficult, but I think one should try to remember that Fairytale Romance is just NOT linked with Fairytale Lifestyle. They are two completely independent things. They might happen concomitantly but that’s it. Great Romance can happen no matter the financial position of either partners, and Financial Magic might happen without link to one’s lovelife. Also : Your. Significant. Other. Is. Not. There. To. Fix. Your. Problems.

  • you know as something for a future article essay, you mind covering the overall consequences in narratives, of characters with low expectations vs. high expectations, basically not the matter that a character just having ambitions will backfire on them, (look if the cautionary tale they were aiming for, is knowing when it’s enough, or never go beyond your means, fair enough) whereas sure lower expectations, basically equals every small victory is worth a celebration, however than it keeps people from straight-up wanting decency, even demanding their due credit,

  • I would love to see a take on possibly the “reverse” on how many men are swindled out of money on the OnlyFans bots, thinking they’re talking to the cam girl on screen when it’s been outsourced to a corporation. A popular OF can’t talk to their thousands of fans all at once. Something’s got to give.

  • Have you folks covered the very specific but oddly prevalent trope of ‘The family of colour that just moved in down the street are wealthy, highly educated over-achievers’? The Carmichaels from Rugrats and the South Park episode ‘Here Comes The Neighbourhood’ (which actually parodies the trope) as a couple of examples

  • All these women thought they were the one. It is not just this you see it with. You see it with women who get married to abusers that they know are abusers. They are convinced that they will be the special one whose love heals all wounds. They will love the anger out of him. They will love the substance abuse away. If they show enough love, he will take care of his kids and help her around the house. Love and give enough, maybe one day he will give you the kind of love you want.

  • The women were not mocked purely because they fell for a clear scam. It was because it wouldn’t have happened if they weren’t greedy. They were indeed shallow. (Maybe not the friend though). Because he had absolutely no game and spoke like a 13 year old, they got on a plane with him and forged documents knowing it was wrong and they blamed the banks (who should’ve countersued because of the documents they submitted). Yes, blame the actual scammer but let’s not take all accountability away from them. The issue is not always “society”. People who are aware of capitalism know full well that rich people are not inherently good. You can only be rich by exploiting people and they know this. The diamond industry is a particularly disgusting industry and they fell in love with that idea.

  • I thought the idea of a man as a provider was an outdated relic of old times, until I worked in a job where people regularly mistook me for the owner, and I experienced more women overtly flirting with me than at any other time in my life (even some as much as twenty years younger than me!). It was quite the disappointing revelation. I’ve reduced my income to almost nothing now, just so I can trust anyone who shows an interest to have genuine intentions, but wouldn’t you know it, there’s nobody showing any interest anymore.

  • I grew up consuming media that mostly sent the message that money doesn’t buy happiness and it doesn’t matter what was in the guy’s bank account and what matters was what was in the guy’s heart. Rich guy characters were like the false romantic leads and the sweet loving guy you shared common interests with was the way to go. Maybe that’s just me not going for these types of stories. I still like the Disney fairytales though since they were characters that got depth added to them.

  • That proves why the idea that the man should be the provider in a relationship is extremely toxic and dangerous to women. The reason why many women see money as an asset when it comes to choosing a man is because of this mindset. We can’t blame women for falling for rich guys, if we make them believe that this how the “ideal man” should be.

  • I thank you for the analysis. But there is no way I will stop judging these women. I would never trust a rich person. Rich people are by default not good people. And then seeing the way he communicated with them… You‘d have to ignore all of your intuition. All of it. His messages are exactly how any Arab guy off the street would talk. I know all of this. Why don‘t these women. I don’t believe they didn’t. Was there so much trauma that made them suppress all sense of self-preservation? There has got to be a point where we are allowed to expect responsibility from people. And yes, women. Of course he Did The Thing. But he is trash. I‘m expecting nothing. From women who went to university and present even remotely intelligent? Hell yeah I am.

  • A moment to celebrate myself & my philosophy: if there is something in a relationship, you are perfectly fine to have a date in a local park, sitting on a bench and talking (and laughing, and experiencing the vibe). If you need to focus your attention on something shiny becasue you can’t stand the guy? – well, good luck!

  • We are too quick to believe that the fictional depictions of people that we see in the movies and on TV are true, when ironically, even a lot of non fiction turns out to be..well…fictional. The article mentioned the movie “The Social Network and how it ends with Mark Zukerberg single and alone, sitting in front of his computer, sadly hoping his ex girlfriend will accept his friend request. It was an entertaining movie, but in reality, Zukerberg was already dating the woman that he would later go on to marry during the time period covered in the film. If he was ever alone during his college days, it was for a very short period of time.

  • The process of going for richer men is a selective breeding technique found in any species that can breed. The one who bears children usually has more to lose from a sexual encounter. Therefore, they are more enticed by the idea of not just stability and security but future happiness for the whole family. It’s nice to feel secure and stable; even better to feel happy on top of that. For many women, money eases more and more burdens that could come from starting a family, allowing them to pursue the things that make them happy rather than the boring and difficult necessities. Therefore, they are drawn to rich men because it allows them to focus only on the romance of the relationship and not the hardships. It allows them to feel sexually liberated because they never have to worry about the cost of raising a family should they explore themselves sexually. Unfortunately, not everyone truly ends up marrying a real life prince like Meghan Markle did, and even that has shown itself to come with its own share of real difficulties. And there is even more danger with being so financially dependent on men. If a man chooses to, he can divorce a woman at any time, leave her for someone else, and she would be left penniless. Diary of a Mad Black Woman isn’t just made for film. It exists in real life . What’s more valuable than the money, in the long run, is trust, and that’s a currency most people take for granted.

  • wow….men literally read fifty shades of grey just so they can scam women by turning their fantasy onto them. i dont know if i respect the grind or i am sickened that i will never watch those movies the same again or am just disappointed that women have not done the same- oh, wait, just remembered onlyfans and simps exist and this one guy blew his life savings on a girl who simulated his fantasy only to turn it on him. we are all sad creatures.

  • I am not at all judging these victims for falling for this con. He played it so well and started his menacing strategy from the get go. It’s afwul. Only one thing i found dissapointing… Their awe for this capitalistic dream which can only come from exploitation. Isn’t the diamond industry known to make you go YIKES? Private jets still don’t make you go ew no?

  • This isn’t just cultural it’s evolutionary. Because women had to care for their baby for 9 months they had to find someone who would help protect and care for them for that long haul. A guy could participate in the creation of a baby for one minute and never have to be around and he still would pass his jeans on so all he cared about was the attractiveness of the woman as a sign of her fitness.

  • No one likes to admit this but, how rich people are raised vs poor people is so different. With poor people, there is baggage and they are just trying to survive. With Rich people, they are happy and enjoy life. Not saying poor people can’t be happy. Not saying a rich guy can’t be an ass either. But the truth of the matter is, countless men who grew up poor or in crap environments, have a hard time expressing their emotions, dealing with stress, and dealing with anger. They are the first to yell, get loud, want to be taken care of and coddled. With a rich man, he isn’t looking for someone to take care of him. He knows how to express his emotions and what he wants, and most of them know that making a scene or screaming doesn’t get them what they want. There is a confidence and maturity that they have, and I believe this is what is attractive to most women. Sure they use their money to pay for dinner and nice presents. But I think ultimately they treat you like someone they want in their life to have fun. Not saying poor guys can’t be mature, but we got to look at the whole picture and environment. A guy working 12 hours as a plumber/electrician won’t come home and romance you and make you dinner. Instead he wants to come home and unwind. The rich guy who only works because he wants to and is happy will come home and romance you. Not saying poor guys can’t be romantic, its just so much more effort for them.

  • Yes, why would a young woman want a man who is charming, invites her on exciting trips on private planes, always replies to her messages and is, apparently, good in bed? Anyone thinks more than gold digging this is about the alternative being less educated guys who won’t travel with them at all and also will never do the dishes because they spend all their free time and money on gaming?

  • People think women sell out for money, yet males are the ones who recieve inheritance without doing anything, receive financial education, and are encouraged to pursue high income, self-interested careers as well as having generations of representation in such careers due to political, legal, and social restrictions keeping women of the recent past out. Males are universally less expected to perform uncompensated interpersonal labor to take care of their own parents, grandparents, ill wife (whom they’re likely to leave), or even the human they make. Women live longer, have less to save for retirement, give more up for kids, are more likely to parent their own children, and are less likely to be given money from parents.

  • And now that women are raising their “standards” and “requirements” for a partner this is going to happen more and more. To the point they will have to fight or share the same con artist, I mean, rich and handsome guy. Some women like to gamble, but when they lose, they never accept part of the responsability. If only they could see that there are decent, honest, hard working man. But since the average joe doesnt have a glamourous life style, carreer or means to sweep a lady of her feet, tough luck buddy. Better luck next time.

  • women are not blinded by rich guys they are just stuck in the 6+ rules, 6 figure salary or + money, 6 foot tall or +, 6 inchs or + ((penis), ect and at the bottom of the list are things like character. and the idea is that the woman can walk away with half or sum of HIS money if she plays the game right

  • Awwww, the wedding bells are ringing. This was so sweet, especially since Itsuki learning being loved has more value than money. The art style was good, they made Ren more man-lier (is this even a word!?) than usual. The voice actors were good and the animation of especially Itsuki crying was good too.❤️💚 I watched this whole article, yet still don’t know what a marriage swindler is!😅