Bride burning, a form of dowry death, is a violent practice where a woman is doused with kerosene or other flammable liquid and set on fire by her husband or family for refusing to pay additional dowry. This practice has become a political issue and has been raised on human rights agendas worldwide. In India, many thousands are killed in marriage-payment disputes every year. Dowry is an ancient tradition among the upper castes but its spread among all sections of society probably leads to a femicidal epidemic.
In India, bride burning accounts for the death of at least one woman every hour, with over 8,000 reported cases of dowry deaths occurring in 2010. The dowry system in India refers to the durable goods, cash, and real or movable property that the bride’s family gives to the groom, his parents, and his relatives as a condition of the marriage. The upsurge of marital violence against women due to dowry has already crossed the demarcation and transforms the marital family into a danger zone.
Bride burning occurs when young females are murdered by either their husband or their family for their family’s refusal to pay additional dowry. The victims rarely survive, and the dowry system has become a significant political issue and has been raised on human rights agendas across the world.
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Why are bride burning in India?
Dowry culture is a leading cause of bride burning in low-income countries. The dowry system goes back to ancient times. It’s when a bride’s family gives the groom money, jewelry, or other things as part of the marriage. In some cases, the dowry goods payment system continues throughout a woman’s life to please her husband. If the bride’s parents can’t pay the groom, the dowry system causes suicide or burning. In 2015, 76,340 women died due to dowry harassment, which is about 21 deaths per day in India. The dowry system is still common in many South Asian regions. Most dowry deaths happen in the first few years of marriage. The most common ways women die in dowry-related incidents are drowning, poisoning, hanging, and burning. This violates the right to life, freedom from torture, and discrimination between the genders. It is a crime and has been treated as culpable homicide. If it is proven, it can be punished by up to life in prison or the death penalty.
We need to make laws and educate people to change the ideas that make people want to pay for their daughters’ weddings. These factors can stop the practice of bride price and bride burning. Human rights groups and the international community must work together to stop the dowry culture and violence against women.
Does a woman keep her dowry?
If you or your husband or in-laws received a dowry, it is yours. You have a right to any property given as dowry to your husband and his family. The person who receives the dowry must give it to the bride. If you don’t, you could go to jail for up to two years and/or be fined up to Rs. 10,000.
What is a dowry death in India?
India Dowry deaths are when a bride kills herself or is killed by her husband and his family because they are unhappy with the dowry. It is usually the result of abuse by the husband’s family. Most dowry deaths occur when the young woman can’t take the harassment and kills herself. Most suicides are by hanging, poisoning, or fire. Sometimes the woman is killed by being set on fire by her husband or in-laws. This is called bride burning and is sometimes disguised as suicide or accident. In India, women are killed by burning in dowry disputes. The groom’s family is usually the perpetrator. India has the highest number of dowry-related deaths in the world. In 2012, 8,233 dowry death cases were reported in India. Dowry issues cause 1.4 deaths per year per 100,000 women in India. According to a 1996 Indian police report, every year it receives over 2,500 reports of bride-burning. The Indian National Crime Records Bureau (NCRB) reports that there were 8,331 dowry death cases in India in 2011. This is up 14.4% from 2008 (8,172) and 17.6% from 1998 (7,146). Critics say these figures are under-reported.
What is the bride burning in England?
Burning Brides: Dowries can lead to financial ruin. The dowry system has led to thousands of women being burned to death. Bride burning is when the in-laws burn the bride because she didn’t bring enough money. Bride burning is still a problem in Britain and has become a political issue worldwide. Time for change? Asian reformers say the dowry is wrong. As Asian women become more independent, they no longer need a dowry. Supporters of the dowry say it is an ancient custom to give a couple a good start in married life. Gold jewelry is a big part of Asian mythology. A daughter’s wedding is very special, and giving her gold shows how much you value her. The focus of dowries has changed from securing brides to asset acquisition, which is a concern.
What is the point of a dowry?
Dowry: Money or goods given to a bride by her family. In the Roman Empire, the bride’s family gave money to the groom or his family to help pay for the bride’s living expenses. In some cultures, the groom gives a gift to the bride or her family on marriage. In others, the bride gives a gift to the groom or his family. The dowry can be a gift to the in-laws or insurance for the bride. It’s something she can keep if she gets divorced. Other terms for this are “bride price” or “bridewealth.” Over time, some families used the dowry system to exploit others. What was meant to be a gift and promise of security soon became a demand that resulted in broken engagements, divorce, violence, and even death. These countries made dowries illegal. Today, the dowry is more informal and casual. It is especially common among members of the African and South Asian diasporas. It’s a way to honor a couple’s culture.
What is the purpose of a dowry?
In many societies, brides’ families give money to grooms’ families as a way of saying thank you for the groom’s expenses. These exchanges are not just about money. They also help the families get to know each other better. In medieval and Renaissance Europe, the dowry was used to make women more desirable for marriage, to build the power and wealth of great families, and to determine the policies of states. The practice of dowries died out in Europe in the 19th and 20th centuries. In some places, dowries became more popular at the end of the 20th century, even when governments tried to stop them. In South Asia, parents of the groom sometimes demand compensation for their sons’ education and future earnings, which the bride would share.
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Who was the last woman to be burned in England?
Catherine Murphy and her husband, Hugh Murphy, were convicted of coining at the Old Bailey in London and executed on March 18, 1789, along with seven other men. They were hanged. But the law said Murphy should be burned at the stake. She was brought out past the others’ bodies and made to stand on a small platform in front of the stake. She was tied to the stake with ropes and an iron ring. When she finished praying, her executioner, William Brunskill, put straw around the stake and lit it. Murphy wasn’t burned alive. After Prudence Lee in 1652, it was the practice to strangle the condemned before setting the stake alight. According to Sir Benjamin Hammett, the Sheriff of London, she was strangled before being burned. She was tied with one rope around her neck, the platform was removed from under her feet, and 30 minutes passed before the fire was lit. She was not burned alive.
What is the opposite of a dowry?
What is reverse dowry? We all know about dowries, but have you heard of dower or bride price? Yes, some people pay for brides, which is called “reverse dowry.” Dower is when the groom gives the bride property at the time of marriage. The groom or his family pays the bride’s parents for the property. Some tribal communities practice this custom. Is reverse dowry good for girls? In rural India, a bride’s family often gives a lot of money to the groom, often by borrowing and staying in debt. This makes it hard for families to afford girls, which has led to decades of killing babies.
What does dowry mean?
1. Law: Money, goods, or estate brought by a woman to her husband in marriage. 2. A natural talent or gift.
Recent Examples on the Web: Her parents were a Russian count and a merchant’s daughter whose dowry made her an aristocrat. —E.R. Zarevich, Smithsonian Magazine, 12 Mar. 2024 Nannina was betrothed at 13 for a large dowry and brought to her husband’s house five years later. —Pragya Agarwal, Smithsonian Magazine, 18 Mar. 2024 But Kaur still hasn’t received the $8,500 her family paid in dowry or any other compensation for her decade-plus ordeal. —Time, 28 June 2023 Women sell jewelry and wedding dowries for cash to feed their families on a Rafah street. —Taylor Luck, The Christian Science Monitor, 1 Feb. 2024 This was a family ceremony and a dowry gifting, with almost 400 people in attendance. —Alexandra MacOn, Vogue, 27 July 2023 Vaccarella painted evocative, confusing images on linens her mother had collected. —Julia Halperin, Robb Report, 15 July 2023 Traditionally, such cloth would be part of a woman’s dowry. —Hannah Beech, New York Times, 30 June 2023 Nobody pays a dowry in Western democracies. —Time, 28 June 2023 These examples show how the word “dowry” is used today. These examples don’t reflect the views of Merriam-Webster or its editors. Tell us what you think of these examples.
Middle English dowry, from Anglo-French, alteration of dower — more at dower.
What is the meaning of fire in Indian wedding ceremony?
Kanyadana – the father gives his daughter to the groom. Panigrahana – a ritual with fire, where the groom takes the bride’s hand. Saptapadi – the most important ritual. The term means seven steps, with each step corresponding to a pair of vows. The vows are in Sanskrit, and sometimes clarification is needed in the couple’s native or regional language. (See below for the short form.) Like Panigrahana, Saptapadi is done in front of a fire. After each of their seven vows, the groom and bride walk around the fire with hands linked or tied together. The groom usually leads the bride in the walk for the first few pheras. Then the bride leads the groom in the rest. Fire is the divine witness to the marriage. After Saptapadi, the couple are considered husband and wife. The Kanyadana ceremony is performed by the bride’s father. If the father has died, a guardian of the bride’s choosing performs the ritual. The father brings the daughter to the groom, who puts his hand on her head. This is the start of the bride’s ceremony. The groom takes the bride’s hand while the Kama-Sutra is recited in front of the father, bride, and groom. The Kamasukta verse is: Who gave this girl to me? Kama (the god of love) gave her to me, so I can love her. Love is the giver, love is the acceptor. Come in, the bride, the ocean of love.
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I’m so heartbroken perusal Deepshikas father. His intentions for his daughter was genuine and sincere. How was he to know that he was giving his daughter to a monster. I can’t fault this father because there is probably many like him who suffered the same consequences and who will never forgive themselves till their last breath. I hope that no one has to experience this type of loss. Condolences to all the girls who passed away and sorry you came to a beautiful country for a new life but it was short lived. May you rest peacefully. As a women I am so sorry that you had to endure this type of suffering and treatment. We live in a world where evils population is the higher number.
It’s better to be poor and live happily than to be rich and live a terrible life full of brokeness and disappointment. Always be content with what you have, because after life, we all gonna die and will take nothing with us. As long as you have food on your table, a place to sleep that’s good enough.
I don’t care what western people think about India, but we seriously need to introspect. There are many women who have to suffer whole life due to this dowry system. Worst thing is that so called ‘Hindu Protector ‘ organisations don’t take this problem seriously. People who ask for dowry or torcher women for dowry should be boycotted. Irony is that even senior citizens of our society don’t think it bad and many times they support the oppressor instead of oppressed.
Educated are more into this causing lot harrasment to women even who are working along men where the father pays entire life and the answer remains my parents asked for it not me!! Donno much of North part of india but south pays the gold, 💰!! Beti bachavo can only happen in this country when dowry becomes strictly illegal!!
This should be shown everywhere who doubts indian customs and values. We were really the most advanced civilisation culturally, economically or technologically and now we are barely proud of our own culture. Today just talking about our own culture and religion, one may even be termed as “communal”😣
The Dowry system is not mentioned in any of the Indian or Hindu texts. Even in mystical lores, ie in Srinivasa kalyanam, the Lord borrows money from Kubera to be able to marry his consort and deck her with lovely clothes and jewels. Dowry system is a foreign custom. Henry VII got a heavy dowry for getting his elder son married to the Spanish princess, Catherine of Aarogan. That happened more than 100 years before the British came to India. They(Indians and Brits) didn’t know each other then. Later they came and settled here. Stories about their queen being our queen got afloat. British royal marriages became important maters of gossip and discussion to Indians by the 18th and 19th c. So you can guess when and how the dowry system began in India. Excellent article Prachyam, informative, and eye-opener!
I know I’m posting this often but everyone needs to hear this. Some of my Christian and atheist friends did gharwapasi and came back to Hinduism. To be precise it was 7 of them. At first they had their reservation about this but I told them to practice Yogā for 1 month. After 32 days of Yogā they were feeling very happy and wanted to know more about it and Vedanta philosophy. One of them told me that she liked Swami Vivekananda’s biography very much. I plan to gift a copy of it to each one of them on their birthdays. Some of them told me that they have shared this knowledge with other atheists and Christian, ex Christian friends of theirs and some of their friends r taking interest in learning Sanskrit now.
Thank you for bringing up this issue 🙏..After East India company conquered India, on 2nd August 1858 they imposed their colonial law on us where they prohibited Indian women from owning immovable properties and large sum of money. Due to this, parents started naming away their daughters’s streedhan property shares to their son inlaws in hopes of securing their child’s future. But the lust for power and greed for money maligned the intentions of society and gave rise to compulsory dowry for groom and male child favouritism over girls. Although, back in Britain, they passed an act in 1870 which made their women eligible to own and inherit properties. But sadly that ammendment was never implemented in India..
When I was a little boy, I didn’t want to take dowry because I was a “Liberal” who didn’t like my culture and wanted to erase it. I thought these were in accordance with our religion. Was even an atheist for a brief amount of time. Now I don’t want to take dowry because it’s not our culture. Proper research and content like yours turned me from a liberal to a person who loves his culture the most; basically made me an unapologetic Hindu again. 🙏🚩
No dowry didn’t originate in India, it was started by urban elites of Florentine, as an instrument coercing the buergeoisie to put in their life’s saving, only to be used by the former as liquidity. Proof : An excerpt from the book “The invisible hand” by Bas Van Bavel. A clear example of the way urban elites influenced the market and used it to suit their interests, is the erection of Monte delle doti, in Florence. This dowry fund created in 1425 allowed Florentine fathers to invest sum of cash, recieve interest and get more substantial sum back after stipulated time, to be used as the dowry of their daughters.
“Tu idhar, udhar ki na baat kar, yeh bata ki qaafila kyon luta Hamein rehzanon se gila nahin, teri rehbari ka sawaal hai”. The truth is dowry system is one of the major problems of India right now so rather than romanticizing the past we need solutions. Also I won’t be surprised if your new article is about how India never had caste system but varnas and it was so good blah blah…
Thank you for sharing this valuable information!🥹 I would like to add that my father and his family also never demanded and took dowry from my mother’s family and women in my father’s family and have always been independent (including financial independence), opinionated, strong and motherly! My maternal grandmother, also, was a strong, firm and motherly woman. Men in my family have never confined women. And that makes me respect them all, even more.😊 Shubha Deepavali 🪔
Most of the dogmatic practices in Indian society actually seem to be either because of an Islamic corruption of our traditions or as a counteraction to Islamic tradition. For example during the Islamic invasions and Islamic rule of India, When the husband of a woman died, that woman would be sold in a slave market as a sex slave to the highest buyer. To preserve the dignity of the woman, Sati was performed. And see both practices are barbaric and I don’t deny that but I would for women those were the only choices that were there. Slavery and Sex slavery were and still are very common practices in Islam. It has been talked about in the Quran and the Hadiths and Muhammed himself owned, traded, and had sexual intercourse with his female slaves. This is what feminists and our history textbooks won’t tell you
Someone finally said it. Wish I could make it clear among the people where I live cause they thought giving and taking dowry is not bad but it’s a ritual, a custom to be done. They are not aware that they are following british tradition not indian. For them dowry is a matter of pride. And what a great irony it is that these are same people telling others that they are the protectors of indian culture and Hinduism when they themselves knows nothing.
We have Praveen for ancient archeology, and we have strong for truth and dare and now prachyam……#Digital# In person we have said Deepak and Swamy to explain and to concur with the attackers of our history And in Telugu we have Nationalisthub and Bharatha varsha We are so fortunate and we need to follow those websites
In class 10,we had a story named ‘The Necklace’ and it’s author is Guy de Maupassant.He was a French writer of 18th century.In that particular story,he mentioned about dowry(in first three lines I guess).My question is if dowry is really Indian,then why this author mentioned about this in his story???
Women were considered very equal to men and also participated in big debates of knowledge and changes in society,,,,it was only until the Mughals and British ruled India that degraded the women. The Hindu mythology actually has very less to no discrimination against women. But unfortunately that is not what we’re following this day,,,,Hindus need to introspect that what they actually say in the name of their religion isn’t really true,,,,women is considered to be a great power and any type of oppression on women has been seen as punishable in our Vedas,,,,we really need to study our own mythology cuz we have diverted ourselves very much in the name of westernization.
I agree as an ex Christian to a lot of your article . The only thing is that it was not bought in by the British.. it was the Portuguese who bought it too earlier . And previous traders who bought it in too . Their life style became our life style and things changed culminating in the British institutional IT .